As stated above, people who want their spouse to remain undeported.
As stated here now, anyone who doesn't want to curse their deceased spouse's name, or have their own name cursed, for dying intestate.
Outfox them at their own game, then. Be resourceful. Do everything you can, and more, to outsmart them and leave them flat-footed. Make that your goal. You'll feel in control, rather than helpless like a victim.