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  1.    Ontarkie reacted to a post in a topic: Let Sleeping Dogs Rant
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  5. Ontarkie
    ~~Moved to Moving Here and Your New Life in America, form AOS Family K1/K3 P&P- as the topic of health insurance is discussed here.~~
  6. Ontarkie
    ~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, form ROC- As similar topics are discussed here.~~
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    ~~Zombie thread locked to further replies. Please start your own thread if you have questions about your case.~~
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    ~~Moved to the PI regional forum, from DCF~~
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  16. Ontarkie
    I started planning an outdoor wedding before our visas were approved. I bought my dress in Canada, we planned where we would get married. We picked the Old Mill since it is Arkansas and yes a big tourist and wedding destination. But it was new to me and exactly what we wanted. When we finally made the move we picked the place to order the food and cake. Grabbed a kit at Walmart to print our own invites. The hardest part was the JP, I had to call a few. Then we all gathered at the house for food, music and booze
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  21. Ontarkie
    Does your fiancé work in Ireland with a company willing to transfer him to the US or a Job Offer in the US? If so this would open another option with the spousal visa called DCF. It is only available under certain circumstances, like the move of a USC to the US for work.
  22. Ontarkie
    ~~Thread moved to General Immigration Discussion, from AOS Family K1/K3 P&P- the OP is past the AOS stage.~~
  23. Ontarkie
    You're welcome, I was worried I was too harsh. It sucks I know but you did do the right thing. If she is two hours away and needs to be seen by a doctor. She needed to go to the nearest place. It was good to send her a copy of the insurance card. She won't be able to use that against you. Shutting off your heart is the hardest thing ever. I've had to do that with my ex. He was very toxic and at the end violent. I already made up my mind at that point but it was still hard. If he stayed with me I would have lost my kids. It sucks and it hurts but you did good. Now time to keep yourself busy, have a plan set of replies you want to use to keep her thinking nothing is wrong and you're just super busy. Fingers crossed for you on Monday.
  24.    mam521 reacted to a post in a topic: Need Help with Next Steps After Receiving IR2 Visas for My Kids
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  26. Ontarkie
    Definitely get a thermometer in there. I had a side by side at first and then the French door. Both were a problem but the ones made with the icebox in the fridge are the worst. My side by side didn't last long. The middle wall started getting so hot it could burn you.
  27. Ontarkie
    ~~Moved to General Immigration Discussion, from IR1/CR1 P&P~~
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  29. Ontarkie
    I'm am glad you found this site, and glad we can offer some advice. It is sad that many of us have seen similar scenarios and why we are all telling you the same thing. It happens far too often, and men and women like you fall prey to ppl like her. She will bring on the big crocodile tears, beg you for forgiveness anything to make you feel bad. Anything to get back into the house with you or just keep stringing you along to have you continue to get her that GC. Exactly like she is doing to you now. She thinks because those came in soon she will get the GC. She doesn't know you sent in the letter to withdraw. When she finds out it will get ugly. You are so worried about her getting deported even after getting her SSN and EAD. You need to close your heart off, you are not protecting yourself enough. Get angry, get upset, get mad and stomp up and down. Close off your heart to her. I'm not saying go make her life a living (you know). I'm saying back away, and let her chips fall where they fall. Serve those divorce papers, and get far away from her. Block her number, before you lose more then your job and housing.
  30. Ontarkie
    Yes even with her EAD. I know your lawyer knows nothing about immigration and he/she is taking too long to get this done. The lawyer gave you bad advice more than once regarding immigration. Like not to withdraw or notify Immigration of the pending divorce. Please tell us you did in fact send the letter to withdraw her AOS? I know I asked but I'm not sure what part you answered yes too.
  31. Ontarkie
    Of course she wants to come home. She knows full well you still need to finish the paper work, she will string you along as much as she can. Promise and say all sorts of things, there it is again her work. If you let her come home you can bet your last dollar it will be to create one heck of a scene she can use against you. Do not fall for it. DO not let her back into your home not even for one second. She is a pro manipulator and you cannot even begin to fight at her level. Voice recording will not help you much as USCIS will not listen to it. Get those papers served and make sure you are not alone when you do serve her.
  32. Ontarkie
    Read my other comment. You are far too trusting.
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