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[Cathi 5,748]

It's true in Islam it says the man is supposed to be the breadwinner, but sometimes that isn't reality here in the US. My husband is Muslim and he arrived here a year ago, until he was able to find employment it was impossible for him to contribute much, although he did bring money with him. Even with him now having a good job, I choose to work as I have a son in college and I would never expect my new husband to pay his tuition. If my husband had his way he would be paying the tuition and have me not work, but i want to. In your husbands case, if he isn't even attempting to support himself and puts unreasonable demands on you to send him money, especially since you have children to take care of and with your daughter struggling it seems he doesn't have much of a conscience. I have a teenager who has Asperger's syndrome and struggles with depression, I understand what you are going through. In my opinion you shouldn't send him money until the divorce is final, your children need you more than he does. I pray for your daughter. If you ever need to talk, feel free to inbox me.

[JRF 117]

Sorry...I'm struggling to see how any of this has to do with the "Visa Journey".

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

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[maryamwesseem 0]

Sorry...I'm struggling to see how any of this has to do with the "Visa Journey".

I started this post thinking to help my husband..only to find out that our marriage was not real. Sometimes in a journey..the outcome is not as we expect and we are lead to a comclusion that we are not happy with. That being said i will no longer be posting here, as there is mo need . I do wish all your legitimate relationships all the best and that your journey results in happiness.

Edited November 17, 2013 by Ryan H

[Ryan H 3,812]

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That being said i will no longer be posting here, as there is mo need .

***And on that note, this thread is now closed.***