if you fail the ROC interview what happen?

[xXJay_DXx 1]

I just got married and we still have one more year to go before they send us stuff for the ROC but right now me and my wife are not in a good term in our relationship. Our relationship is currently in a bad shape, so when we go to the ROC interview and we got denied with not a lot of evidence to show them that we are a real couple. Then will I be able to remarry and will it be harder next time for me to bring my wife over? That if our interview didn't went so good with the ROC and my curtent wife get deported back to

Vietnam.

[Not a Tailor 1,370]

Sorry, maybe there's a language barrier going on, but did you just type that your wife is going to be deported because it's not a real relationship in the eyes of USCIS and that you're trying to figure out whether or not this will hurt your ability to bring a new bride over? Do you have a new bride in mind?

[Happytobe 164]

I don't think they send you the ROC paperwork. It's your responsibility to know when to send it all in and what to send in and do it. But I could be mistaken..... as for the rest, I'm biting my tongue.

[xXJay_DXx 1]

Well I don't have a new bride in mind but what I'm trying to say is if my current marriage doesn't work out and later if I do want to remarry and marry another one from overseas will it be difficult for me to bring her over or pass the ROC. That is all

Well I don't have a new bride in mind but what I'm trying to say is if my current marriage doesn't work out and later if I do want to remarry and marry another one from overseas will it be difficult for me to bring her over or pass the ROC. That is all

[milimelo 4,505]

...

Anyways, wife can stay and file ROC on her own (maybe she gets an interview and gets to say all about you or maybe she doesn't get an interview and just gets a new green card mailed to her).

You're still on the hook for I-864, divorce doesn't cancel that out so keep that in mind when you petition another wife...

[Pitaya 2,577]

~Moved from ROC to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits Forum~

~Hypothetical inquiry about future ROC process~

[Sandra G. 5,051]

Your wife can divorce you and file l 751waiver and she may have her case approved.IF you go to interview and they believe your marriage is a not bonafide marriage you will have trouble to bring a new wife here.

[xXJay_DXx 1]

Well it a real marriage it not a fake one it just my wife change when she came to the US so at the moment we ate not in a good term with each other. Right now I could file for a divorce but I dont want to that would be too crude. I thought maybe just let her stay for another year and then just dont file the ROC and let the USCIS take her back to Vietnam. I dont want her here even though this sound crude and mean, but since she got here she hasn't make me happy beside ruining my life. However if I don't file for the I-751 will it affect me from getting another wife from overseas in the future? Should I divorce her and let file that for her herself or should I file the form but we have no evidence will that make us a fake? The reason why we don't have any evidence is because we work as a nail technician we have no healt insurance of any kind or 401K and we are currently living with my sister family we don't even have our own place. Therefore we have no evidence, so what should I do? Divorce her and let her do a waiver on the file or file it and go to the interview or don't file it? If I do one of this will it have any effect

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

If your wife is the immigrant, then she files ROC and you don;t have to be a part of the process. You can't get her deported. If you don't have a working marriage right now, don't try to say you do and file jointly. That is lying, and lying is fraud.

[aamirpearl 47]

Well I don't have a new bride in mind but what I'm trying to say is if my current marriage doesn't work out and later if I do want to remarry and marry another one from overseas will it be difficult for me to bring her over or pass the ROC. That is all

Well I don't have a new bride in mind but what I'm trying to say is if my current marriage doesn't work out and later if I do want to remarry and marry another one from overseas will it be difficult for me to bring her over or pass the ROC. That is all

First of all your still in a mess, so focus on your relationship first and if it still doesnt work out than do the divorce and after falling in love again from oversea than think about this question again.. It looks to me like your calling it quit already with your wife and wants a new babe from oversea to cuddle..

[churawan 14]

Well it a real marriage it not a fake one it just my wife change when she came to the US so at the moment we ate not in a good term with each other. Right now I could file for a divorce but I dont want to that would be too crude. I thought maybe just let her stay for another year and then just dont file the ROC and let the USCIS take her back to Vietnam. I dont want her here even though this sound crude and mean, but since she got here she hasn't make me happy beside ruining my life. However if I don't file for the I-751 will it affect me from getting another wife from overseas in the future? Should I divorce her and let file that for her herself or should I file the form but we have no evidence will that make us a fake? The reason why we don't have any evidence is because we work as a nail technician we have no healt insurance of any kind or 401K and we are currently living with my sister family we don't even have our own place. Therefore we have no evidence, so what should I do? Divorce her and let her do a waiver on the file or file it and go to the interview or don't file it? If I do one of this will it have any effect

Are you for for real??? So let me get this right... You are at poverty level or just above?!?!? You find a wife in Asia and bring her here to "take care of you"?!?!?! She get here and finds out life isn't what she thought it would be, for what ever reason, money being high on the list?!?!?!? You now want to return her to sender like a bad purchase?!?!?!? Then you want a "new model" to try out?!?!?! You are exactly the type of person that causes issues in the system with real true love and relationships!!!!!!! You can barely write in English to be understood, lucky for you most of us on here speak "broken English".... The good or sad part of this is that she is a human being with feelings and rights... You don't get to decide to have her removed at will, she can go forward without you and sounds like she should get on to that pronto (fast).... She can show that she came here with the idea of a happy life and relationship, you have decided it isn't working out.. That is fine not every relationship works out regardless of 2 USC's or folks in a visa type relationship.... Money is usually the number 1 or 2 reason for failed relationships... I think you need to think long and hard about this relationship first, salvage it if at all possible... If not assist her in getting through an amicable divorce, then assist her in gathering info for her own filing of the ROC process.... Then you need to look in the mirror and decide what to try to do next... As stated above you are still on the hook for her I485 so with your low income I doubt you could petition another unsuspecting woman to take care of you.... Good Luck with your journey from here!!! Just make sure you do the right thing here for her well being.... From what you wrote, she hasn't done anything fraudulent yet and shouldn't going forward!!!!

[xXJay_DXx 1]

Why should I wasted a big amount of mmoneyto marry her because I though t she would be one of those girl that would be with me for life, but she change her way toward me after she get here. Me and my family have done a lot for her already but she doesn't appreciated all the thing we did for her. Now in her mind she only want to stay here and focus on making money so she could get her family move up in the community. She doesn't care about the family here, so you tell me why should I help her stay. She hasn't done anything nice for my family yet, and I'm not thinking about a new bride I'm just saying for future reference. It not I dont want the relationship to work but she doesn't willing to work with me on the problem. So you tell me.

[JRF 117]

I suspect you are an immigrant yourself so you should know better...but you didn't grant your wife the ability to move to this country. If you want to divorce her fine, your choice. If you want to import another wife fine, your choice. Seems to me to be an abuse of the system but the law is the law, perhaps you can't find a suitable bride in the US.

But don't expect USCIS or this government to deport at your whim. You may not have to help her stay, in fact if your marriage is done then that would be fraud. But this idea my tax dollars should be wasted investigating and deporting your castoff is upsetting, to say the least.

[JRF 117]

Are you for for real??? So let me get this right... You are at poverty level or just above?!?!? You find a wife in Asia and bring her here to "take care of you"?!?!?! She get here and finds out life isn't what she thought it would be, for what ever reason, money being high on the list?!?!?!? You now want to return her to sender like a bad purchase?!?!?!? Then you want a "new model" to try out?!?!?! You are exactly the type of person that causes issues in the system with real true love and relationships!!!!!!! You can barely write in English to be understood, lucky for you most of us on here speak "broken English".... The good or sad part of this is that she is a human being with feelings and rights... You don't get to decide to have her removed at will, she can go forward without you and sounds like she should get on to that pronto (fast).... She can show that she came here with the idea of a happy life and relationship, you have decided it isn't working out.. That is fine not every relationship works out regardless of 2 USC's or folks in a visa type relationship.... Money is usually the number 1 or 2 reason for failed relationships... I think you need to think long and hard about this relationship first, salvage it if at all possible... If not assist her in getting through an amicable divorce, then assist her in gathering info for her own filing of the ROC process.... Then you need to look in the mirror and decide what to try to do next... As stated above you are still on the hook for her I485 so with your low income I doubt you could petition another unsuspecting woman to take care of you.... Good Luck with your journey from here!!! Just make sure you do the right thing here for her well being.... From what you wrote, she hasn't done anything fraudulent yet and shouldn't going forward!!!!

Exactly.

[lasko12 9]

Why should I wasted a big amount of mmoneyto marry her because I though t she would be one of those girl that would be with me for life, but she change her way toward me after she get here. Me and my family have done a lot for her already but she doesn't appreciated all the thing we did for her. Now in her mind she only want to stay here and focus on making money so she could get her family move up in the community. She doesn't care about the family here, so you tell me why should I help her stay. She hasn't done anything nice for my family yet, and I'm not thinking about a new bride I'm just saying for future reference. It not I dont want the relationship to work but she doesn't willing to work with me on the problem. So you tell me.

as I understand so far, your wife is/was in a real relationship with you and your marriage is 100% legit, no fraud so you can't get her deported. As a husband or even an ex-husband, why do you have to get her deported from this country at all costs ? I don't see anything wrong when she focuses on making money. I am just concerned if she doesn't want to work and just stay at home and enjoy her life then It would be an issue. In your case, it looks like you have a good wife and it seems to me that you're a selfish husband who just wants his wife to only take care of his own family.

Edited October 9, 2013 by lasko12