dont want to wait another 4 or 5 months

[ricpope 13]

i am tired of waiting, got my NOA2 , now the earliest embassy date is January. my heart cannot take any more. i am calling it quits. i am making irrational decisions. the loneliness is eating me alive. i wish i never stated this. i wish you all well in your journey.

[kmiami15 8]

how long have you guys been together ???

[Bishop 6]

i am tired of waiting, got my NOA2 , now the earliest embassy date is January. my heart cannot take any more. i am calling it quits. i am making irrational decisions. the loneliness is eating me alive. i wish i never stated this. i wish you all well in your journey.

May I suggest taking up a hobby something to preoccupy your mind. Before you know it January will be here. It's not easy being away from the one or one's you love. We on Visa Journey know this all too well. Others can tell you how they make it through the months of waiting. Hang in there.

[Ladidinbaba 2]

Stay strong don't give up. ur time is coming. Anything with govt is slow.

[pivery 10]

I feel for you and completely understand how you are feeling. I cannot believe how long this whole thing takes. I also don't understand why they just don't hire more people with all the unemployment we have here. It makes your relationship stronger but it also puts it under alot of stress too. I Skype with my wife every day and try to visit every few months until she gets approved and can come to the states but it's obviously not the same as living together.

We're all suffering, so please keep that in mind when making any decisions. The people handling our paperwork ought to be ashamed of themselves to keep couples waiting so long. Hang in there!

[Bxfemme 11]

Hang in there girl! Just a few more months! Stay strong

[Guest KMC]

Don't give up! I understand what you are feeling now. I've been there. Waiting so long makes you want to stop and just forget everything. But you can do something while you are waiting so that you will not worry too much while waiting. Good Luck

[Spice1473 10]

Hang in there girl. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. At least you have a date. I am still waiting for one. It's been almost one month. You're almost at the finish line. Take a trip there if you have to, but don't throw the towel in. It really isn't that far away.

[Janelle2002 3,865]

I am soooo sorry this is happening to us all. It is a hard process and you have to thicken and toughen up to make it through. We are in AP since June and no sunshine as of yet. I promise I pray every night and I am at the point I am asking God do he hear me? Is he ignoring my prayers? My heart is bleeding and I am going crazy. I hate I moved back without my husband. I have tried so many things and I cannot take my mind off of my empty king size bed. I'm even taking up another degree, but working and studying is not enough to fill my empty space.

No laughing and playin in the kitchen when we are cooking,no walking together or watching movies, wrestling, playing soccer, I want to pack my bags and say the hell with the U.S. but I keep feeling we are soo close to being finished.

You will make it, we all will and I tell myself this everyday I can make it.

[kmiami15 8]

listen to the song "Si tu no estas (live)" by Franco de Vita.... enjoy... it will help you feel better...

[janet&adonis 57]

i am tired of waiting, got my NOA2 , now the earliest embassy date is January. my heart cannot take any more. i am calling it quits. i am making irrational decisions. the loneliness is eating me alive. i wish i never stated this. i wish you all well in your journey.

We dont know when the earliest date is yet. It could be november or december. Has your case been sent to nvc? If not have you tried to email csc? Bug the ####### out of them! Dont give up! You have put so much into this, and we are all going through the same wait time.

[MRS.MONTILLA 4]

You should try to go and visit if u can. I see my babe every 2 -3 months. Thank god.. if u can't visit try to webcam chat. Thats the next best thing. Cheer up it'll b worth the wait

[immihelp99 21]

Everyday I feel like giving up but then I remember that it will all be worth it in the end. Why don't you go visit him for the holidays if you can... it's not easy going on a international trip, but if you can then go. I always say school and work can wait.

[KinaNKev 5]

I feel ur pain this journey is hard n long!!! ?

[Chowking 20]

your sadness now is just temporary, wait a little and he will be yours forever. You have to win ont his waiting game like most of the successful couples here.

God bless!