My USC fiancée has used me...

[BrockUK 26]

Hi there,

I could really do with some help right now. I dunno what to do or who to turn to.

I have been on VisaJourney numerous of times to get help and assist others with their visa. You can follow my story on this link:

My Journey

However, I have discovered that she is not who she claims to be. She has used the name Maria, but after doing research (suspicions came to me when things didn't clock, such as lack of money, no word on our NOA2 etc...) she has other MySpace and Twitter accounts with her picture on it called Stephanie.

I questioned her about it, apparently her ex set that up so he could spy on her (?!).

Fair enough. But those profiles had pictures of HER on it with another man. Her husband actually! Looking this up they filed for divorce last year. Then she changed her story saying that the girl in those pictures are her cousin....

Sure, ok. But thats not all. Stephanie is another alias. Her real name is Melinda! She is a criminal and has charges of fraud against her name! Not only that she is 12 years older than what I thought she was!

I don't know what her motive is. Im more scared than anything. I fell in love with Maria, not Stephanie or Melinda!

Not only that, she is claiming disability benefit using her alias name, not her real one! She is committing more fraud!

Should I report this to my police station or go straight to my US Embassay?!

Im so hurt, confused, angry and scared. Please advise me

[JensJrny2Ray 367]

You should be able to call USCIS yourself even though you are the beneficiary and tell them the situation. See if even there's a file pending etc. Did she lie about sending the package too? (I-129F)

I don't think your local police station would have anything to do with her fraudulent activities in the USA, BUT if she is filing fraudulently with USCIS, you can let them know about that. They should be able to tell you if a NOA2 was issued also. Although, if you have the NOA1 with the receipt number, can you see on the website what your status is?

I am sorry that this has happened to you. After you contact USCIS, my advice would just be to let her go. I know it is difficult, but will be wasting your time and energy if you continue to stress over this.

[X Factor 1,112]

In addition run - run, run from her.

[Kassil&Tierce 18]

Contact the USCIS directly and report this to them; if nothing else they can directly enlighten you as to what the hell is really going on with your case, if anything. This is the kind of thing where dealing with it falls into government jurisdiction, rather than in your hands. Then distance yourself from the whole mess and do your best to get on with life. Lingering on it is just going to make things more difficult for you, man.

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I was wondering what happened to you guys (we also filed our I-129F around the same time). This was totally unexpected.

You can look up how to report her disability fraud in the state she resides in by just googling it.

[Harpa Timsah 13,258]

Wow Brock, I don't know what to say...

This is effed up beyond belief.

You seem like a really really nice guy, and this whole story seemed odd to me the whole time. Like how she was waiting for disability to come through... If she was disabled (which she seems to be) then she should already have that form of assistance.

I guess she has been scamming the gov and people to get lots of money. Very trashy.

So what are you worried about exactly? I know you are hurt right now, but I hope you want nothing to do with her anymore (even though that is hard). The truth is, the person you fell in love with doesn't exist.

So you are scared for yourself? Do you want your money back? Do you just want to turn her in to the authorities? I am not sure who to call, but you could the embassy and ask, or call the local police in the US and ask them how to proceed (you can find their number online).

You seem like a really nice guy, like I said, who just unfortunately has too much of a desire to be a knight in shining armor. You deserve a nice woman who will take care of you like you take care of her, not a one-sided thing.

[Darnell 8,478]

if your timeline is accurate,

then you have great chance 'to do nothing' and let the I-129F petition expire.

You stay in the UK, walk away from this lass.

Sorry for yer plight, but is good you learned of it before you applied for a visa with the IV Unit in London.

[milimelo 4,477]

To report fraud disability: http://www.tn.gov/humanserv/contact.html or socialsecurity.gov/oig - London Embassy should have SSA department so you may want to write to them with proof.

Didn't you have a copy of her passport for I-129f filing? What name(s) are listed on it and how did you find out about Melinda/Stephanie? Background checks?

[Pinkrlion 2,719]

To report fraud disability: http://www.tn.gov/humanserv/contact.html or socialsecurity.gov/oig - London Embassy should have SSA department so you may want to write to them with proof.

Didn't you have a copy of her passport for I-129f filing? What name(s) are listed on it and how did you find out about Melinda/Stephanie? Background checks?

Still speechless. I would agree with contacting USCIS as the beneficiary in writing and calling. You should have a local USCIS office in London. Present all of your information, printouts from all the social networks, including your youtube videos, etc....

Good Luck.

[Villanelle 4,122]

Well, I read through your other thread and I am very sorry for all you went through. It is very clear you truly cared for this woman and she is legitimately ill.

I have to say though, you really have no proof do you that an immigrant petition was filed for you do you? I mean have you ever seen the actual NOA1? Was your name printed on the top as the beneficiary? Was one of her alias names or her real name printed on the top as the petitioner?

You need to contact the embassy either by phone or email or in person and find out if a petition was ever filed and alert them of the situation and find out how to have it withdrawn because of the fraud/relationship has been terminated because if you ever seek to have a family based visa again in the future that petition will come up on your record (if it exists)

Again, I know you spent a lot of time preparing something- but unless you actually saw something saying it was filed- theres a chance nothing ever was filed.

At that point youd have to take it from there. She couldnt have petitioned for you under an alias and then used disability income under a different name to fill out the aff of support. She couldve petitioned for you under her real name I suppose, but you wouldve filled out the forms with the information she provided you- The whole thing just snowballs into a big mess. Perhaps legally she changed her name at some point, but you wouldve had to fill that out on the g325a and Im guessing you didnt.

Since Im guessing you dont have any proof of her using an alias (like a phony passport or a fake DL) and you cant really report her to the police or claim shes obtain SS benefits under an alias. Shes probably obtaining them under her legal name. It would seem like the only thing she used an alias for was her relationship with you. And that really is a shame because I dont know how long she thought this was going to go on for? How long was she going to keep lying to you about what her real name was? And I honestly dont think she filed any papers..

The only thing you could contact her local police about and report would be IF she did actually file papers with USCIS with a false name on it. To do so, she wouldve had to submit either a fake passport or birth certificate or omit the items and get an RFE. Thats something both USCIS is going to prosecute her for and the local PD would investigate her for.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Brock, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I've been following your story from the beginning and I'm sorry it's worked out this way. Like others have said, you've always seemed like such a good, stand up guy. She, obviously, does not deserve that.

[indiana_sweetie 120]

I am so sorry about what you are going through. I read your other thread. I was thinking all the problems, the forgetting and such. could just be from the treatments. Doctors call it "chemo brain". But then I read the part about the fraud and multiple names. I'm really sorry. It sounds like she is truly sick and disabled but has other problems.

Edited March 19, 2013 by indiana_sweetie

[Cathi 5,748]

I read your story and I am truly sorry for what this woman has put you through, what an evil person she is. I read that you took 4 weeks from work to come here to the US and take care of her, you said you took her to chemo every day. Did you actually go into chemo with her, or did you just drop her off? I am asking this because I am curious if she lied about having cancer as well. It sickens me that people can lie like this, what on EARTH was her motivation? were you sending her money? Just a tragic set of circumstances for you, and I hope that this woman gets what id coming to her. What a sad excuse for a human being she is. Please keep us updated. I hope that Social Security catches up with her. I would love to know how she got disability under an alias. I am on SSDI for lupus, sjogren's syndrome, and RA, the process of getting SSDI is not an easy process by any means, they need proof of everything. I can;t see how someone could get it using a fake name or social security number. that means she had to have lied to everyone, including her doctors. Just WOW....karma is a biotch..and I hope it bites her