Need advice getting husband deported

[Incongo 0]

My husband got approved to move to the USA in May.

He got here finally at the end of September therefore he hasn't been here long at all.

He got his green card in the mail

He got a job under the table after being here for 2 wks

He cooks on a big smoker/grill

Everything was going fine until I do not know what happend

First thing I notice when my husband arrived

He didn't want to have sex ( I would like to say I am attractive)

He made dumb excuses why he didn't want to have sex

After a few arguments about it, he confessed that he has a sexual dysfunction

We went to the doctor to fix it and they prescribed him Viagra we couldn't afford to get it

we both do not have health insurance

I stood by my husband side and there was time we did have sex he seem not to be into it

I also notice he was very eager to get job even was depressed about it ( I am wondering why when you just got down here)

On his job he met a lot of ppl like him from the same country

Every time we go out (we went out a lot having good times) he always trying to get people number (men that is)

Okay getting to the point

One night we got into an argument over something he said on his job, then I started looking for some money he gave me (we was rushing out to go out on a date and i hid the money quickly)

As I was looking all over for the money he gave me. I found a condom underneath my couch pillows with feces on it blood and fresh semen inside of it.

I went off on my husband and pushed him a couple of times mad about the condom that I found

He immediately called somebody on his phone and left to go meet them.

I had to be at work in the morning, when i got home he was gone with all of his stuff packed and gone!

So I went to the uscis website to set up an appointment to meet with somebody about my husband behavior and what I found.

I was warned by a friend that he is going to try and say he is abused in our relationship

Lo and behold today I got a visit from the cops, now mind y'all the incident took place on saturday night the argument and me pushing.

He told the cops that we got into an argument and that I burnt his hand. I immediately showed the cops the nasty condom i found and told him what he was trying to do ( build a wawa case around whatever it is called) because he used me to get in the united states.

I told him that my husband told me that he burnt his hand at work while doing another worker job on Friday morning and i gave them his job information. The cops took my side of the story down and said if he is lying he is going to be prosecuted for false report.

First I believe my husband is gay/ I believe the guy he was messing with left the condom on purpose so I will find it. I donot believe my husband would be that sloppy and forget the condom under the sofa.

I know my husband cell phone account information, I saw a lot of different numbers on there. I called a couple(to build my case against him) one was a single date line and some was females telling me that my husband was trying to get with them and didn't tell them he was single.

This was around his second week of being here he was calling the single chat line.

What should I do? and how should i go about getting my husband deported? I plan on going to the office to speak with someone about my situation but I feel stuck on what I really need to do before my husband try to file a fall case around me first.

Another thing I am very devastated my heart is broken

I got played and used. My husband is somewhere staying at a man house, I haven't spoken to him since our argument. he is in hiding and very embarrassed about the condom, however he talked to my mom and said he would get a dna to prove me wrong and for me to call him. I called him about it and he never answered or called me back, instead he sent the cops on me today.

[Inky 1,111]

VisaJourney.com recommends that if any member or user knows directly of someone involved in fraudulent or illegal activity, that they report such activity directly to the Department of Homeland Security, Immigration and Customs Enforcement. You can contact ICE via email atImmigration.Reply@dhs.gov or you can telephone ICE at 1-866-347-2423.

You cant deport him, you report him to ICE with a huge evidence pile and a very very well written letter and get a divorce. Send a letter to USCIS as well and thats all you can do. He already has his green card.

Stay away from him, don't call him or anything.

[Incongo 0]

Thank you inky but he only has the 2 year green card? what u mean he cannot be deported? of course he is a fraud..

I am confused are you implying that there is nothing I can I do?

Wow so he is up here in my neck of wood doing what he want while I am responsible for him.

I have no clue where he is at or anything.

I have the nasty condom for evidence and I have his phone records. That is the only pile or evidence on him.

[Incongo 0]

I heard if I divorce him that he can go and get married to another woman, hence he is calling single chat line probably try to get another woman to marry him.

[Leatherneck 693]

Wow! There was another VJ member that found his wife was using him also to immigrate. He contacted ICE first with his information and the ICE agent made notes in the wifes Alien File. He can not remove conditions without you, but he can try to open a VAWA case and attempt to stay.

While this is still fresh in your mind, sit down and make notes...you might be surprised to discover what was 'no big deal' early on will now strike you as odd and as a red flag.

Contact ICE first, I think his name is Johnny-the VJ member that told his story here, that is what he did.

Wow, I am sorry to hear this happened to you.

[Leatherneck 693]

I heard if I divorce him that he can go and get married to another woman, hence he is calling single chat line probably try to get another woman to marry him.

At this point, nothing you can do about his behavior. I know upsets you, do not let the anger get the best of you.

Leave him out there and focus on you and how you need to protect yourself from any bogus claims. Do not be alone with him, I would have zero contact with him (might try to say you threaten or harassed him) and change the locks on your place.

Edited October 20, 2011 by Leatherneck

[Inky 1,111]

Thank you inky but he only has the 2 year green card? what u mean he cannot be deported? of course he is a fraud..

I am confused are you implying that there is nothing I can I do?

Wow so he is up here in my neck of wood doing what he want while I am responsible for him.

I have no clue where he is at or anything.

I have the nasty condom for evidence and I have his phone records. That is the only pile or evidence on him.

You cant deport him. He has his green card. He can remove conditions after the divorce by himself and hes already trying to build a VAWA case on his own. If that does not work he can try and file based on marriage in good faith if he has the papers to support that and prove it. Then he can get his 10 year by himself.

All you can do is report him to ICE and that is it. Only ICE can deport him and its not likely they will go after him right now.

[AmyWrites 593]

Contact ICE. You can't deport him. Don't let him have anything to do with you.

[Blessing+faith 1]

HI,

I just read this, and it makes me sick to my stomach! just wanted to tell you that you mustphone ICE, if you dont do it and report it immediatly, they will hold it against you, im sorry to hear this, and know that you have the support on VJ aswell as family, Remember writes dates and times down. I wish you the best and don't worry, Do your side, report him and then Justice will be served!

[Boiler 46,106]

I do not see anything to tell ICE about.

What would you tell ICE? Nothing seems related to Immigration.

Edited October 20, 2011 by Boiler

[kennym 275]

I do not see anything to tell ICE about.

What would you tell ICE? Nothing seems related to Immigration.

Boiler

Seriously??

You report his behaivior to ICE, and let ICE know the reasons she is suspicious, then you let ICE do the investigation.. That's their job..

It's not her job to deport him or investigate him, but she can (and should) tell ICE her story and let ICE decide if an investigation is warrented..

What do you propose? that she do her own investigation? It's ICE's Job...

To the OP, you need to protect yourself against a VAWA claim.. Dont let yourself be alone with him.. From your story, there is nothing to resolve, so don't let him trick you into working things out.. Stay away from him and start the divorce proceedings and contact ICE immediately..

Kenny

[Boiler 46,106]

He does need VAWA, so why the fuss on that.

I can nothing that suggests ICE would be remotely interested.

So a waste of time, but if it makes the OP feel better no harm.

[Ontarkie 14,470]

Ok here's what I think you should do. First look for a Lawyer and find out about an annulment. If your husband is looking for men and has always known he is gay then he lied to you about his intentions, and I believe this is grounds for an annulment. If not possible for an annulment I would make sure that the reason for divorce is due to him lying about his sexual orientation. Then once you get this started call Ice and inform them that you are seeking annulment/divorce due to the deception of your spouses sexual orientation. I don't see how he can apply for AoS on his own for entering a marriage in good faith when he has been lying to you from the start, but that will be up to the IO who will look at all the info including what you send in.

[skiptex 225]

[Boiler 46,106]

I wonder how many States still allow you to have the basis of divorce as the other person having exited the closet.