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One of my paisanas and her 3 kids just came over on a K-3 visa in July.She is all bummed out because her husband only wants sex twice a week.She called me and asked me what was his problem :unsure: I really didn't know what to tell her.She really wants to go back to Panama now.Any advice,suggestions,etc. ?

May 7,2007-USCIS received I-129f
July 24,2007-NOA1 was received
April 21,2008-K-1 visa denied.
June 3,2008-waiver filed at US Consalate in Panama
The interview went well,they told him it will take another 6 months for them to adjudicate the waiver
March 3,2009-US Consulate claims they have no record of our December visit,nor Manuel's interview
March 27,2009-Manuel returned to the consulate for another interrogation(because they forgot about December's interview),and they were really rude !
April 3,2009-US Counsalate asks for more court documents that no longer exist !
June 1,2009-Manuel and I go back to the US consalate AGAIN to give them a letter from the court in Colon along with documents I already gave them last year.I was surprised to see they had two thick files for his case !


June 15,2010-They called Manuel in to take his fingerprints again,still no decision on his case!
June 22,2010-WAIVER APPROVED at 5:00pm
July 19,2010-VISA IN MANUELITO'S HAND at 3:15pm!
July 25,2010-Manuelito arrives at 9:35pm at Logan Intn'l Airport,Boston,MA
August 5,2010-FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 23,2010-Filed for AOS at the International Institute of RI $1400!
December 23,2010-Work authorization received.
January 12,2011-RFE

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William33   110

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Sounds as if there may be "other" underlying issues. A marriage counselor may be helpful here.

One of my paisanas and her 3 kids just came over on a K-3 visa in July.She is all bummed out because her husband only wants sex twice a week.She called me and asked me what was his problem :unsure: I really didn't know what to tell her.She really wants to go back to Panama now.Any advice,suggestions,etc. ?
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I AM NOT THAT GUY Grand Master

I AM NOT THAT GUY   5,715

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One of my paisanas and her 3 kids just came over on a K-3 visa in July.She is all bummed out because her husband only wants sex twice a week.She called me and asked me what was his problem :unsure: I really didn't know what to tell her.She really wants to go back to Panama now.Any advice,suggestions,etc. ?

She may need to take matters into her own hands, so to speak. I don't know how old the husband is, but men peak in their teens, and the sex drive declines after that. It could also be pressures at work, and at home. Maybe, she is just not allowing enough time for things to happen "naturally".

Husband and wife need to talk about it, without pressuring the male, or that may result in performance issues. The more the wife makes an issue of it, the worse things will get. :angry:

Buy a shower massage. A heard that works wonders for a woman's "sexual tension." :whistle:

Worse comes to worse, have the husband contact his urologist. 500 mg of L-Arginine three times a day works for me. :innocent:

Tell her to take away his computer priviledges, until he does his husbandly duties.

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panamania79   2

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One of my paisanas and her 3 kids just came over on a K-3 visa in July.She is all bummed out because her husband only wants sex twice a week.She called me and asked me what was his problem :unsure: I really didn't know what to tell her.She really wants to go back to Panama now.Any advice,suggestions,etc. ?

She may need to take matters into her own hands, so to speak. I don't know how old the husband is, but men peak in their teens, and the sex drive declines after that. It could also be pressures at work, and at home. Maybe, she is just not allowing enough time for things to happen "naturally".

Husband and wife need to talk about it, without pressuring the male, or that may result in performance issues. The more the wife makes an issue of it, the worse things will get. :angry:

Buy a shower massage. A heard that works wonders for a woman's "sexual tension." :whistle:

Worse comes ot worse, have the husband contact his urologist. 500 mg of L-Arginine three times a day works for me. :innocent:

It's not me.I WISH my SO was here with me ! :crying: I will look into that shower thingie :yes:

May 7,2007-USCIS received I-129f
July 24,2007-NOA1 was received
April 21,2008-K-1 visa denied.
June 3,2008-waiver filed at US Consalate in Panama
The interview went well,they told him it will take another 6 months for them to adjudicate the waiver
March 3,2009-US Consulate claims they have no record of our December visit,nor Manuel's interview
March 27,2009-Manuel returned to the consulate for another interrogation(because they forgot about December's interview),and they were really rude !
April 3,2009-US Counsalate asks for more court documents that no longer exist !
June 1,2009-Manuel and I go back to the US consalate AGAIN to give them a letter from the court in Colon along with documents I already gave them last year.I was surprised to see they had two thick files for his case !


June 15,2010-They called Manuel in to take his fingerprints again,still no decision on his case!
June 22,2010-WAIVER APPROVED at 5:00pm
July 19,2010-VISA IN MANUELITO'S HAND at 3:15pm!
July 25,2010-Manuelito arrives at 9:35pm at Logan Intn'l Airport,Boston,MA
August 5,2010-FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 23,2010-Filed for AOS at the International Institute of RI $1400!
December 23,2010-Work authorization received.
January 12,2011-RFE

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is her husband the guy that does smelly poos your bathroom?

I was going to inquire about that...

K-1

March 7, 2005: I-129F NOA1

September 20, 2005: K-1 Interview in London. Visa received shortly thereafter.

AOS

December 30, 2005: I-485 received by USCIS

May 5, 2006: Interview at Phoenix district office. Approval pending FBI background check clearance. AOS finally approved almost two years later: February 14, 2008.

Received 10-year green card February 28, 2008

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they need to have a 3some. :hehe:

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Empress of Groovy   373

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I heard somewhere that black olives have aphrodisiac properties. Can anyone weigh in on this?

K-1

March 7, 2005: I-129F NOA1

September 20, 2005: K-1 Interview in London. Visa received shortly thereafter.

AOS

December 30, 2005: I-485 received by USCIS

May 5, 2006: Interview at Phoenix district office. Approval pending FBI background check clearance. AOS finally approved almost two years later: February 14, 2008.

Received 10-year green card February 28, 2008

Your Humble Advice Columnist, Joyce

Come check out the most happenin' thread on VJ: Dear Joyce

Click here to see me visiting with my homebodies.

[The grooviest signature you've ever seen is under construction!]

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What a silly reason to consider ending the relationship.

If this is the sole reason to end the relationship, there must not have been much to the relationship to begin with.

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