Age Difference

[Steve and Evelyn 0]

Hello everyone!

I know there's a poll somewhere on VJ about the age difference between filipinas and their husbands/fiances. I've seen it and saw many with large age gaps between the man and woman. I'm just curious. Did the consular officer bring this up during the interview? Did it cause anyone to get denied? I've been worrying about this the last couple of days. Her interview is June 16th. She just needs to do one more thing for her medical related to her recent surgery. We have a legitimate relationship and proof of such for three and half years now. Maybe I'm just worried about nothing but any reassurance would make it easier to sleep at night. I really don't want anymore delays.

Thanks everyone and good luck with your visa journey.

Best wishes,

Grace & Steven

[sasha414 0]

i know another couple with a big age difference and there was no problem during her interview. she is now in the states.

[SuperDuper! 230]

Hello everyone!

I know there's a poll somewhere on VJ about the age difference between filipinas and their husbands/fiances. I've seen it and saw many with large age gaps between the man and woman. I'm just curious. Did the consular officer bring this up during the interview? Did it cause anyone to get denied? I've been worrying about this the last couple of days. Her interview is June 16th. She just needs to do one more thing for her medical related to her recent surgery. We have a legitimate relationship and proof of such for three and half years now. Maybe I'm just worried about nothing but any reassurance would make it easier to sleep at night. I really don't want anymore delays.

Thanks everyone and good luck with your visa journey.

Best wishes,

Grace & Steven

Did you say earlier that you are 34 years age diff? No problem with that. Age is just a number. You will be fine. :star:

[Steve and Evelyn 0]

Thank you!

[Old Dominion 26]

It helps to be there for her interview. Otherwise, age difference may be a hot topic.

[Steve and Evelyn 0]

My plan was to be there unfortunately my fiance's family had a medical emergency which basically took all of my travel money. I'll just trust the mountains of evidence we have of a three and half year relationship will do the trick! Thank you for your replies.

Best wishes,

Grace & Steven

[sojen 0]

Hello everyone!

I know there's a poll somewhere on VJ about the age difference between filipinas and their husbands/fiances. I've seen it and saw many with large age gaps between the man and woman. I'm just curious. Did the consular officer bring this up during the interview? Did it cause anyone to get denied? I've been worrying about this the last couple of days. Her interview is June 16th. She just needs to do one more thing for her medical related to her recent surgery. We have a legitimate relationship and proof of such for three and half years now. Maybe I'm just worried about nothing but any reassurance would make it easier to sleep at night. I really don't want anymore delays.

Thanks everyone and good luck with your visa journey.

Best wishes,

Grace & Steven

It's not a problem if you can prove that it is a legitimate relationship. Though on my interview the consul really ask me about why I wanna get married to this person 13 years my senior , but I answer ed him calmly.It doesn't mean your fiancee will be ask about this, it's up to the CO what he/she wants to ask.

Edited June 6, 2009 by sojen

[liraC 2]

Dont worry about the age gap,as long as you have a proof that the relationship is genuine ,proof on going relationship,then it'll be fine..Goodluck and have a nice weekend!!!

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

Hello everyone!

I know there's a poll somewhere on VJ about the age difference between filipinas and their husbands/fiances. I've seen it and saw many with large age gaps between the man and woman. I'm just curious. Did the consular officer bring this up during the interview? Did it cause anyone to get denied? I've been worrying about this the last couple of days. Her interview is June 16th. She just needs to do one more thing for her medical related to her recent surgery. We have a legitimate relationship and proof of such for three and half years now. Maybe I'm just worried about nothing but any reassurance would make it easier to sleep at night. I really don't want anymore delays.

Thanks everyone and good luck with your visa journey.

Best wishes,

Grace & Steven

It depends on the age and how experienced the girl is. If she is barely passed being a teenager, fresh from the barrio, and can hardly speak English, and the guy is like 60 years old, grizzled and gray, chances are fairly good you might get a fraud investigation.

[sojen 0]

Hello everyone!

I know there's a poll somewhere on VJ about the age difference between filipinas and their husbands/fiances. I've seen it and saw many with large age gaps between the man and woman. I'm just curious. Did the consular officer bring this up during the interview? Did it cause anyone to get denied? I've been worrying about this the last couple of days. Her interview is June 16th. She just needs to do one more thing for her medical related to her recent surgery. We have a legitimate relationship and proof of such for three and half years now. Maybe I'm just worried about nothing but any reassurance would make it easier to sleep at night. I really don't want anymore delays.

Thanks everyone and good luck with your visa journey.

Best wishes,

Grace & Steven

It depends on the age and how experienced the girl is. If she is barely passed being a teenager, fresh from the barrio, and can hardly speak English, and the guy is like 60 years old, grizzled and gray, chances are fairly good you might get a fraud investigation.

[yan 1]

Hello everyone!

I know there's a poll somewhere on VJ about the age difference between filipinas and their husbands/fiances. I've seen it and saw many with large age gaps between the man and woman. I'm just curious. Did the consular officer bring this up during the interview? Did it cause anyone to get denied? I've been worrying about this the last couple of days. Her interview is June 16th. She just needs to do one more thing for her medical related to her recent surgery. We have a legitimate relationship and proof of such for three and half years now. Maybe I'm just worried about nothing but any reassurance would make it easier to sleep at night. I really don't want anymore delays.

Thanks everyone and good luck with your visa journey.

Best wishes,

Grace & Steven

It depends on the age and how experienced the girl is. If she is barely passed being a teenager, fresh from the barrio, and can hardly speak English, and the guy is like 60 years old, grizzled and gray, chances are fairly good you might get a fraud investigation.

well for my case it wasnt an issue for the consul who interviewed me.actually im 21 now and my hubby is 64 and take note i had a daughter from another guy. but look at us now me and my daughter are both here in US with hubby

Edited June 6, 2009 by yan

[rlogan 2,036]

well for my case it wasnt an issue for the consul who interviewed me.actually im 21 now and my hubby is 64 and take note i had a daughter from another guy. but look at us now me and my daughter are both here in US with hubby

good for you.

30 years here. 20 vs 50.

No problems.

No questions.

[maritoni 3]

I have read at the MANILA U.S. EMBASSY CONSULAR SECTION: A HIGH FRAUD POST

That a huge age gap still another fraudulent practice for elderly U.S. citizens to use a K-1 petition for a younger Filipina as a housemaid, instead of a housewife.

[SuperDuper! 230]

It helps to be there for her interview. Otherwise, age difference may be a hot topic.

This is not true. Often, they wont even let in the man for the interview. Besides, age is just a number. Cheers...

[L179 1]

I dont' see why it should be...i mean hey celine dion is not married in the same age group