Too complicated, LOL... in a nutshell, we met on the train in 2007, lost contact, reconnected on facebook the beginning of February 2010, decided to try dating in March, visited him for the first time at the end of June in Oregon, saw each other a few more times over the sumer, did PAX in Seattle in September and decided to get hitched in October. And now to figure everything out to get me in the US legally.