kristinanddan09

As someone who waited 170 days to get the answer on our application, I can tell you that when you get that answer, all the waiting and frustration melt away. Keep your chin up, and try to distract yourself. You love your fiance and that's the prize you have to keep your eyes on. Lean on us other VJers, we're here for you.

Thank you very much. I mean it's just the waiting, and then the frustration of being on my own, even though he and I do talk as much as we can. It's the stress of getting stuff done, and just all of it. I wish I could just forget about it until we got our noa2, but I don't think that's possible.