It is coming up to two years now, we filed on February 3 for a K1 visa. Ken lives in MD, I live in Montreal, we see each other approximately every six weeks. I have added thousands of kilometers to my car. We are waiting for Vermont to send the package to the consulate in Montreal, one of the slowest consulates in the world, if Igor's stats are to be believed. It is hard to wait. But what else can one do?