we met dec 2008 in HCMC at her work. spent about a week together. fell in love rather quickly. i went back to meet her family in hanoi for tet 2009. back again in april to vung tau. had our dam hoi the end of august in hcmc. was back again the last couple weeks of december 2009 to spend christmas together. i went to cho ray and the consulate to get as much info as i could from them also. Planning on returning to HCMC the end of May, 10. In hcm eight times so far. And Hanoi twice. Back for tet in hanoi 2012. Hopefully back to hcm spring or early summer 2012 to get pink and hanh phuc mai mai. Got visa july 2012. Married Aug 2012.