Interesting discussion
But I must say this......
For those who knew their spouse or fiance(e) fairly well before marriage..... It's called a "Leap of Faith"
For those who gets engaged/marry during their first (or second)time of meeting each other (online chats and calls excluded), after barely spending 3 days together (I'm not trying to judge anyone here)..... It's called "A Risk"
According to Robert Frost:
"“We took risks. We knew we took them. Things have come out against us. We have no cause for complaint.”
I rest my case!!!