we met in 2004 when I went to nigeria for a funeral, we stayed friends over the years and in 2008 we dediced to date in feburary 2009 we got engaged, and we did our introduction in dec of 2009 on that trip I found out i was pregnant with our first son. I first filled with a lawyer in nov 2009 but that was a waste of time and money since the lawyer did not follow through. I had our baby sept 3rd 2010 and we are filled with joy me and the baby are going to nigeria in Dec for a month cant wait........hopefully the process will be almost over when we get back in a month.