first we never desire to be gf and bf just friends but then God have Hes special way of imparting us Hes love using hes people. we felt love for each other and inspite of all hendrances we overcome it all coz of the Love that binding us and we come up to a marraige life....God is really good and we cannot fathom hes awesome power and we are all clueless of hes great plans for us most of the time.we are so bless ended....and bleieving that we can overcome everyhting through CHRIST who gives us strenght.