I have seen these a few times, but not I think recently. There was a spate at one time from the Philippines.
Based on those and yes anything can happen I would expect the spousal case to be denied as the OP does not have a basis to petition wife.
Will they do anything about the OP, maybe not at the top of the list unless he comes to their attention but nothing he can do as far getting any benefits.
I suppose parent could petition again and he could go and interview in many years no doubt need a waiver. Now if someone has gone through that process I have not seen it.