Sorry about this as it may be shoutout to push. Been forever since I was here but still a great resource.
Wife went back to help care for mother prior to surgery. It was delayed so she stayed to help as 2020 killed normal visits. She made dad go for checkup and he ended up with stage 4 lung and brain. She been trying to get a death cert to move finances to mom and it’s been a struggle. I can’t break free of work until after CNY. Mom had a stroke just before our daughter was born 10 years go so also dealing with her care and as you know ADA accessibility in China is almost nonexistent.
Any help navigating that web would be welcomed