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  1. We got married in January of 2018 we sent a ton of pics and texts between us, too much I think, we sent letters from his mother and friends, we sent pics and receipts of the gifts he got me, our hotel reservation for our honeymoon, plane tickets, pics form honeymoon. I don't think he listed me on anything don't think we were thinking about it honestly, everything escalated really quickly after I arrived, it was the early days of covid with lockdowns and we stayed mostly at the airbnb fighting I think covid also contributed to the relationship going south, I asked him to fix the house so we could live there but he didn't, he never fixed the house. even if he has anything I don't think he will give me anything I personally don't have anything, maybe he has something but I don't. I do have emails and text from him threatening me, I was very close to getting a restraining order against him because he kept saying he will do something to me even after we already got divorced. to this day he sometimes gets upset because of something unrelated to me and starts texting me and trying to fight with me over some nonsense.
  2. I'm not form these countries I'm from Europe
  3. I guess I should have stayed in a terrible relationship then...makes sense...
  4. I don't have any of that but some photos, the house was in his mother's name she owns it, no joint bank, we didn't have health insurance, bills were in his name I only stayed in that house for 3 weeks like I said. Affidavits we already sent with the case from his mother and friends, and even if we had anything else he wouldn't give it to me. Maybe I should not apply
  5. The already have all the evidence, what else I'm supposed to give them?
  6. Hi everyone, I want apply for citizenship but with all that's going on with immigration lately I am a little worried. I got married in 2018 after a long distance relationship of 4 years, we got married when I visited the US and I received my immigration visa in October 2019, I arrived in the US in February of 2020 and received my 10 year green card. After my arrival I discovered that my husband cheated on my before I arrived when he was on vacation in south America, found pictures and text messages on his phone and when I confronted him about it he started saying that I am crazy and basically accused me of digging and then said that he is a man and that this is normal for a man to sometimes cheat especially when his wife is far away in a different country for a long time and that a man has needs. then he started to really be mean to me and kept saying that I am old (I was 35) and nobody but him is going to want me and that he is a man, that women are not equal and I should thank him that he brought me to this country. After a week or so after my arrival he received my social security card in the mail and hid it from me and then he kept saying that the green card is his since he sponsored me and that he won't give it to me. He was not like this before my arrival, although when thinking about is he ruined our honeymoon (Barcelona in 2019) because I didn't want to go to museums and kept calling me stupid and uneducated with a patience of a 3 year old. Also he promised me that he would fix the house before my arrival and he didn't. I arrived and the house was a mess, not only that the house needed renovations and everything was broken, the living room had a ton of things in it that he picked from the street thinking he will fix them and sell them, so it looked like a hoarders house, the kitchen was so filthy I said I won't stay there and he said that this is my job to take care of the house since I'm a woman. After staying there for 3 weeks I told this to a friend of mine and he told me to come stay at his place for a while until I can find a place to live (my friend was staying at his parents house) I changed the address on the USCIS website to my friends address because I was worried that my husband won't give me the green card like he promised. I received my card 2 months later, my husband was begging me to come back I told him that we can try to live together but I don't want to live in that house unless he fixes it and his behavior. we rented an airbnb for the time until he was supposed to finish renovating the house, it was covid and all he did was sitting in front of the tv and do nothing, he said he is not going to work and he will be collecting the stimulus checks from the government, he also didn't fix the house blaming it on covid and he was verbally abusive never physically but his words hurt me very much. We were fighting a lot until I decided to leave the country and go back to my home country. I told him to file for a divorce and he wouldn't do it, he kept begging me to come back and that he would change, I came back after 4 months, nothing has changed and I filed for the divorce, the divorce was finalized in July of 2021. My plan originally was to go back to my country but because it was covid time I stayed and eventually opened a business here and stayed. Since then he threatened me many times that he will report me to immigration and kept saying that I used him for green card, which is not true. I had good life before him, I had a business there and now I don't make the money I used to. Now it been more than 5 years since I got my green card and I want to apply for citizenship and I am worried that the officer might think that my marriage was fake since I changed my address so quickly after arrival and divorced also quickly. What do you guys think? Thanks.
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