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    Family support

    in Middle East and North Africa

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    Why do family's have to be so unsupportive? When i told my parents i was going to Morocco to meet Kamal, they were so against everything about it. And when i came back, I didn't even have to tell them i was engaged. They knew. My father said he never wants Kamal to step foot in his house. My oldest son, is being as bad as my dad. My son married a girl from Canada and got her over here. And when i told him about kamal and he talked to Kamal online, (they were on cam), he told me he didn't want his wife around my husband ever. That he was a creep. In 10 months, my mom has come around, and tried to make attempts to meet Kamal but kamal refuses to because she should respect my father's wishes. And i just got off the phone with my son, who told me that Kamal and i will end up in divorce, and til i prove him wrong thats the way he beleives. I got so angry i just hung up on him. ####### do family have to be like this. I just want peace in my family. If i have pics to show my parents my father makes racist comments about my husband. That just kills me!!! :angry:

    Any thoughts?

    OMG i don't know if Kamal is the one in the picture but I have a friend (Doctor) that looks just like him..Well I am so sorry that your family is not supportive with you... but remember it's your life and your happiness you don't have to prove anything to anyone just yourself and your husband... you have to be strong, it's gonna be hard for him, he is moving to a new country where noone except for you love him.... Don't let your family ruin your happiness

    NVC is making me lose my mind - 2nd RFE on I-864?

    in National Visa Center (Dept of State)

    Posted

    I understand what you are saying because we pretty much experienced the same thing.

    We had an RFE for the DS-230. I called the operator when I heard the message and she said I had missed putting 'to present' in a couple of fields. I called again and spoke to another operator who confirmed this.

    I made up the cover sheet etc etc - sent it overnight to NVC. A few days later the message changed, saying they had received the item.

    So a week or so passes - no case complete - hmmm. I get the hard copy of the RFE - they did want the corrected DS-230 but they ALSO wanted a photo copy of my Husband's Canadian PR card (he is the beneficiary and inteviewed in Canada).

    The thing is - first of all I don't think the operators can see everything we send - things that are out of the ordinary they may not see - there is no 'code' for a Canadian PR card and there is no code, probably, for an 'employment letter' - therefore they can't really tell you whether it is there or not.

    Anyway, don't want to make this posting too long, but in a nutshell I ended up having to email a copy of his PR card twice and overnight a hard copy.

    I then had to get a supervisor involved. She said 10-14 days but it was really only like 5 or less - she was very nice (I had to call her back a second time as, although they assured her they were going to work on the file - they didn't and she had to go over there to see them a second time).

    I have a theory about this - I think they frown on people making their own RFE coversheets - I can't remember who it was a month or so ago who tried Chris Parker's RFE coversheet and his file ended getting hung up as well.

    So basically 3 things:

    1. The operator may not have told you all that was missing.

    2. I think they frown on people creating their own RFE coversheets.

    3. Let the supervisor take care of it, I definately would not submit anything else, until it is requested. If you did not personally speak with a supervisor today, call back and ask to speak to one yourself.

    (Oh and I also had the shifting dates thing for the 2nd RFE for the card and I also had many operators tell me to ignore the message - they had everything they needed with the corrected DS-230 - hence my belief that they can't see all that is missing - or requested).

    How did you talk to a supervisor??? Did you call the regular NVC number and then ask the operator to pass you with the supervisor>>???

    THE JOKE THREAD

    in Off Topic

    Posted

    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: One night Little Johnny was really scared sleeping by himself at camp, so he sprints out of his tent and runs to his teachers tent and asks "Miss can I please sleep with you tonight ?".

    His teacher replies "NO"

    Johnny moans and says "But my mummy lets me".

    "OK then, just for tonight" the teacher replies.

    Johnny jumps into bed with her and asks "Miss can I please play with your belly button with my finger".

    She again says "NO".

    "But my mummy lets me" says Johnny again.

    "Well I suppose it's OK" replies the teacher.

    Things are silent for a few minutes until the teacher leaps up screaming "THAT'S NOT MY BELLY BUTTON"

    Little Johnny replies "It aint my finger either". :rofl::rofl::hehe::hehe::hehe:

    i was rape

    in Philippines

    Posted

    The easiest thing for you to do, Darkshadow is call 911! after that everything is easy (medical examination) and police process....

    Yeah..It does sounds a lil fishy to be in a forum... I really hope it is

    Spouse Support - How much does she need?

    in Europe & Eurasia (except the UK and Russia)

    Posted

    Well I know about Russia culture that is almost the same as Ukraine (lived there for 5 years)... Girls do that!!! spend, spend and spend and don't care... Man has to pay for "everything"

    I think that the amount that you are sending is reasonable actually more than reasonable, remember that she's gonna be moving to USA, she needs to learn how the US culture is, she needs to learn how to be independent and work for what she wants... don't get me wrong, you have to support her in every way, but in order for her to be successful in USA, you have to let her know!

    In my case, well I have an open credit card for $10.000, I don't spend more than $600 each month...

    Is it just the distance, or is it something more...

    in Middle East and North Africa

    Posted

    We fight all the time, ridiculous things... maybe the same things that we fight when we are together... It's hard to tell each person it's different, each relationship is different, each situation it's different!!!

    It's scary to move to a new country where you will be "alone", with him am his family, sometimes (specially during fights) you omunicatiowill miss your family and friends the most!!!

    Comunication is the base of any relationship, talk to him and express him how you feel...

    off topic are for off members

    in Off Topic

    Posted

    Why would I want attention from grannies?

    gtfoh.

    I THINK YOU HAVE A LITTLE FETISH WITH GRANNY (let's not forget Eric)

    Think It's time everyone calmed down a bit. We have all had our bit of fun. We are adults after all.

    According to Shpat we are grannies!!!

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