My fiancee and I are trying to go through the CR1 route, and we wanted to make it happen as soon as possible. The Utah Online Marriage seemed to be the quickest way for us to officially marry while he is in Brazil and Im in the US, and then we would physically meet to consummate it, so we can start the CR1 application afterwards. After checking for advice with an attorney however, they didn't recommend using the Utah service saying it's too risky, though they also say they don't have a lot of knowledge about it. That got us a bit worried, we already got the marriage licence and we were just waiting to schedule the ceremony now, but would it be better to not move forward with that route with the risk of being denied in the long wrong? Does anyone have any experience with this?
For context, we are in a same-sex relationship (M22 and M32), have been together for 3 years, and we've met in person 3 times before during trips.