aerokkaido

How is this an abuse of the B2? The B2 specifically states that your allowed to stay for SIX MONTHS. We did not go past six months or close to six months at any point. In the entire year, over five different trips, it will have been 5 months. It would have been a smaller amount of time if her family in Chicago didn't kick her out because she was dating me, as I already said, we did not plan on having it be this long and we have our reasons. Either way, not an abuse. In the B2 tourist visa official page, it has "visiting friends/family" as a valid reason: https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/us-visas/tourism-visit/visitor.html/visa. This is obviously not a paid vacation and no one ever said it was.

I don't think this actually matters because they aren't going to check my records/passport when she's the one flying into the USA. Thanks for the relationship advice.

By a year, the I-129f should hopefully (statistically likely) be approved; due to timing with her College, it's likely that we would need to visit each other in some time when the I-129f is approved but the interview has not taken place. Do you know if it's safer or not to travel to the USA on a tourist visa if you have a pending consulate interview? Intuitively I am leaning towards just biting the bullet and waiting at that point. I was already planning on visiting after this, but we'll have to wait another 6 months after in that case. Thanks and congrats on your own success from Ecuador.

Combined, she's spent about 5 months in total on a tourist visa. Of that, most of it is 4 months several months ago (the one longer then planned), 3 week long visits, and then this month for 3 weeks. Thanks for the advice.

Firstly, I want to get some things clear because I know everyone will say this otherwise: We are seeing an immigration attorney for consultation soon We've already printed out several documents to prove that my fiancée is not coming here with the intent to live here for the future until they get the K-1 Visa Now. Heres the actual story: Recently, when my my Ecuadorian, non US citizen, girlfriend arrived at O'Hare from her flight, an agent threatened to deport her; basically, because she had stayed previously for four months with me previously. The agent was aggressive from the start and insinuated that my girlfriend was working illegally (she was not) because she had previously stayed here for four months instead of a month as it was stated on the original airplane ticket (when that happened, we simply decided to live together before she went back to college to see if the relationship was worth the effort of dating across countries). Also, it's important to note she was here three times after those four months, and that this was about 8 months ago. The agent eventually called me to verify that she lived with me and again was very aggressive. I communicated the basics of our relationship with the agent, that we met in Ecuador, we have been dating for a year, that she's a student at college in Ecuador, and that we did not originally plan to have her live with me for four months but that then she decided to try for longer until she had to start school again. At one point I communicated that I had sent the I-129F form to be reviewed, so that eventually, my girlfriend would need to come to the USA so we could get married, and the agent got extremely upset. She misunderstood what the I-129F form is and believed I was trying to file an adjustment status of citizenship for her (I-1485), instead of getting a K-1 visa. I tried explaining that she had the wrong idea and she told me that she knew more then me, and threatened to deport my girlfriend right then and there. Finally, eventually I got through to her and she let my girlfriend go but stated that she cannot stay any longer then a day after her flight to leave (around 3 weeks). Her leaving then is fine but we are really concerned about what this means in the future for when she is trying to come to the United States from Ecuador to see me in the timeframe before the I-129f is approved and she is able to marry me. Again, we did nothing wrong and I'm really angry/sad that this happening to us. What options should I pursue here? If anything happens the next time she comes here, is there anything we could end up doing? In general, I'm looking for advice on how seriously to treat this, I.E was this one officer who was mad or do we need to be super careful anytime she goes to the US for us to talk before the I-129F is approved.