I understand the sentiment, but I'm sure that I have found my other half and I want to spend the rest of my life with them. It's just that a lot of other people I've talked to about this are supportive but afraid that I am rushing things. And I'll admit, I guess we kinda are, but you can't apply normal relationship dynamics to something that's long distance, we really can't afford the time to wait like an extra year or two of dating just to settle on this (especially with Trump in office), hence why we're getting married at 9 months.
I'm worried about proving the evidence of our relationship because a lot of people provide financial entanglement, like joint accounts or proof of having lived together. But since we're across the continent from each other all we can really do is provide photos, receipts of museums we've been to, screenshots of social media posts and our messages and I'm afraid of not having a strong case.