@SnowColdIce
I am planning on quitting my job or taking a leave to live in Russia with him and just not working. I don't speak Russian, but he speaks English "alright".
I haven't applied for the visa yet into Russia and I am nervous because of the political situation there and things that are legal here not being legal there. I know that some Americans have been arrested there.
The amount of time I would stay would depend on how much time I get with that 3-year visa, assuming I even get approved for it. It will take a few months just for me to prepare the documents and everything I need in order to live overseas, then to prepare a tiny wedding in Russia (with no help from his relatives, but we want to make it special) will take a month, I assume. I've been so stressed about all of this that I thought I'd have better luck applying this month rather than waiting maybe 5 months to even start the process. He is also not prepared for me to arrive yet.
If you've gone through this process (especially with Russia), I'd really appreciate hearing even more about it. Even the Russian visa is confusing for me. (Like can I stay for 6 months uninterrupted, leave for one day, and then take another 6 months and do it all again over and over?)
Then I don't know how to get my K1 or Spouse documents processed from Russia either. I know there is a packet that is supposed to be mailed to me that I am supposed to give to him, but if that will take a year and I'll be in Russia, and mail seems to go incredibly slow....