Thank you everyone, yes i also see the red flags with it. It seems even though it is possible, its most likely not going to happen. I was considering marriage to be in baby's life but if i do end up getting denied it kills the whole purpose and it's not a risk i'm willing to take or have her go through that. Other kind of solution seems to be the most sensible thing to do ( removing an element from the equation i don't know if i'm allowed to use the actual word ).
If the relationship has a future i will follow the advice of OldUser.
Thank you for reading and helping out everyone.