Thank you for your response. Two things caught my attention from the link you provided: to divorce I would need:
A copy of the divorce decree or annulment document that ended your marriage (f not available, include evidence that the divorce proceedings have started);
That sounds like good news.
and this other part:
"Any statement made that suggests you were “at fault” in the divorce can have a negative effect on your case. If you believe the divorce was the result on your actions (e.g. adultery, abandonment, etc.), it’s even more important to seek advice from an experienced immigration attorney."
Would that mean that if I iniate the divorce, I'd be at fault? Thanks.