Macewindu311

Some things at CIS need some refreshing. The estimates, the process itself. It's all bananas. I am just paranoid about ours getting "missed" or something. To go so long with zero activity is brutal. But I know we're not the only ones.

Goodness. This is soul-crushingly difficult. Had I known how brutal this wait was going to be, we would have remained unmarried and opted for a K1 instead. Even if it's more expensive in the long run, at least she could have been here by now. But our bed is made, so now we wait. Thanks for the information, kind stranger.

Hey, all. I'll try to keep this short and sweet. Filipina wife. Vermont Service Center. NOA date October 18, 2023. Been actively reviewing since November 2023. "Case taking longer than expected" for idk how many months now. VJ timeline says they are currently working on cases with NOA date of October 20th, 2023.... But still no updates on our end. Is the VJ timeline thing accurate? Should I be expecting something soon? Is anyone else in a similar boat? I'm going to be honest, I underestimated how hard this was going to be. This distance. And we're pretty much stuck apart until the process is done. It's got me a pit and it's affecting her mental well-being as well. This wait and just not hearing anything. Getting hopes up to get them dashed. I just need some hope and some info. I know interview scheduling will take a bit, but if we can at least update with this petition, we can at least feel like we are finally moving in the right direction. Thanks to anyone who replies.