Hello everyone. I'm from Spain and I came to the US during summer to visit my girlfiend with my ETSA/Waiver Program visa.
We met in Spain and we've dating for 1 year while I was studying for to try to pass a exam to be a PE Teacher in Spain and she was under a student visa. After finishing her studies, she decided to come back to US, especially because I was very focus on the exam and we can barely see each other.
Unfortunately, only 40 spots were available for my teaching position and I finished the process the 41st.... so I didn't pass. I decided to take a break after that stressfull and disappointing year and come back in October to Spain with her and try the exam again, so I came to the States to visit her country and family and recharge my battery during August and September. But these last two months have been the happiest of my life and I proposed to her, and the truth is, we don't want to be separated again.
My question is we can get married and adjust my status before the 90 days filling the I130 and I485. Some friends of her said to wait to the 91st, but I'd be ilegal with my Waiver Program. We planned to get married on October 16th (67 day) and then fill every form.
I was trying to read a lot of opinions, videos, forums, etc... But I couldn't find a clear answer.
Thank you so much!
Also, I was reading about evidences, some people use rents, bank accounts, car... I don't have anything of that because this was not planned. Should we changed the names and present it? I think it's not my case.