My 485 was denied today.. I married father of my child that’s a usc few months before filing, I’ve been in USA almost 2 years total, a year spent waiting on the decision, I had no money for a lawyer so filed myself, reason for denial was saying they need a co sponsor even though my husband made over 35k every year last 3 years. Also was my fault for assuming medical exam was my responsibility and not wait for a summons like with biometric . Question is everyone saying to refile and not appeal but at this point I’m a year past expired visa, will this be a problem and I’m guessing I can’t go to Canada to visit my family and return cause they’ll deny me