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Everything posted by Seth.n.Amelia
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I think it is very normal to experience grief at parting. You might consider trying to recognize it as a testament to the strength of your desire to be TOGETHER as opposed to an obstacle. You're both feeling it because it messes up your routines and comforts. It's a natural consequence of the lifestyle and relationship you have chosen. Try to pivot your thinking a little here and view your visits as contained events. Know they are temporary now, but will cease to be temporary in the future. Express these feelings openly and discuss with your partner. Secondarily - make plans. Make a digital date night and find activities you can do together over discord. Livestream to each other, watch movies synchronously, play games together or apart but simultaneously. Tabletop Simulator is great for this, you could even involve mutual friends. It sucks to be apart but there is a lot you can do to feel as close together as possible while we all wait this out.
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Do we know why that is?
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Well it is very hard to say and I don't want to make too many bold assumptions, but in an organized world one would assume that as labor finished on whatever sections are 'current' they might be allocated to one that 'remains' to mop up. In my mind it would be organized to finish late July and and early August, then do Late June/Early July (These seem to be in the same lump?) and then Late August. It just kinda looks like they are focused on working through Late July / Early August at the moment from the numbers while somebody is 'sorting' inbound applications. Who knows though, as organized and sensible as that sounds predictions are worth so little. I'd welcome other thoughts of course, and temper my assumptions with the knowledge that they are only that.
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here's whats up as of last week. One RFE was received and one moved to 'other' in our group. I see that 'Late July' (If we are 'Early July' ) continues to move without anything new happening with any speed from September onwards. My suspicion and hope is that when 'late july' finishes, they return to 'early july'. Now... What the heck does 'other' mean?
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Interestingly the information in the public site and my personal case don't seem to agree. The public site shows 17 cases approved in the last 7 days and 444 approved in the last month This does not seem to align with the information on the backend of my case subscription. Maybe I am just not smart enough to reconcile the numbers..... opinions welcomed.... but it looks like these do not match. Also somewhat worryingly is that I see no approvals etc from November and december; And idea what this means? Are they simply pruning the rejections first before processing the rest?
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I absolutely relate. My person has been in some scary situations which I would have preferred to be around for, but watching at a distance has me feeling very powerless and upset. I feel you. I hope your case is moved along quickly, it's very hard to sit by and wait while the world does not stop, isn't it?