Oh no @jan22! Please that is not harsh. That is the reality of these J1 Fulbright programs.
I used "aged out" bc that is what one of the lawyers used to describe the criteria for when J2 can apply for their waiver, i probably should have said "reaches the age of 21" instead of just "no longer dependent on the primary J1". I understand that this 2 year home residency applies to all parties involved with the J1 and can only be waived off. It doesn't just go away.
And ya the Fulbright-related waivers are hard to get. It was a little easier 1.5 years ago at least for J2s. Someone from the same program that my mom knew got their J2 condition waived in a couple of months in 2018.
I did get the benefit of staying with my mom in the States but what choice did i have as an under-10 kid with no family back home to take care of me if she wanted to leave me behind? lol. (not trying to be passive-aggressive about it haha)
the irony here is that after getting her Canadian citizenship my mom moved back, fulfilled her requirements and has been back in the States for the last 5 years. But it doesn't exempt me from mine. I have to apply for my waiver.
I didn't move back because I was busy with Uni --> grad school ---> work.
Since my mom fulfilled her requirement and is not applying for the waiver, I as the J2 need to meet one of the three criteria they have listed to be able to apply on my own.
One of the lawyers suggested IGA route coupled with marriage to the USC as a reason for consideration. I guess we will know when we apply and I shall def. update here so maybe other J2s like me will have some insight.
I just wanted to know when we do apply for it does it pose an issue for me to travel to the States? We know the entire process of me getting the GC will be anywhere from 2-3 years depending on how quickly the waiver gets granted. We thought of living near a border town so the separation would be a little more manageable. and wanted to see if anyone had any experience/knowledge.