Update as of 9/9/2024:
I think things are starting to look better. My anxiety caused me to think the worst. I am doing more than well - I've entered college and my relationship with my partner is very good. When it came to marrying them, I didn't mean what I said. I don't think I'd ever marry them for a green card, I would take my time and marry them out of love because they deserve good things. Even if it meant I couldn't become a citizen.
Anyways, a few weeks ago, my stepparent and I went to the USCIS center to get biometrics done. It was scheduled for 2 pm but we got there at 1 pm. I am a military dependent so I have a military ID too. I didn't know this, but because of the military ID I was given priority and allowed to finish my biometrics early. It took 5 minutes. I thought it was funny, but it gave me hope
Today I got an email from the USCIS about a case update. They're asking for more evidence. I was worried we'd need an I-130, but it turns out we only need an I-864 and I-693. Both are free and we need them done by December 5, 2024. I'm really excited now since I think I'll be able to get my green card in the next year. I can't wait to be able to make money and help out my stepparent, and I'll be able to pay off whatever college expenses I need, too. I do want to express that I feel really guilty for not believing in my stepparent since there were so many questions they couldn't answer and I didn't like how they just told me to wait it out because I assumed the worst was going to happen. But I'm forever thankful for them
I do need to ask: before I go and research it, how do we get the I-693 finished? Thank you everyone