oldpunk

We started dating seriously in 2017 and I arrived to America in 2019, got married in 2021 after living together all that time. I understand that an affair may seem like I planned the whole thing just to get an immigration benefit but I'm not smart enough to be that cunning for close to a decade.

We tried to make it work, and divorce was a mutually agreed thing at one moment but we decided to put a stop to it.

We've known each other for close of 20 years, and I was out of status when we did. I'm no saint, I agree. They're explicit in nature but nothing about lying to get status or anything like that.

Thank you so much, your response gives me hope. I've built a life here in America and I would not want it to be uprooted. We also have an income disparity and I earn more than my spouse, but I read somewhere that the affidavit of support comes into play before anything else. Speaking of which, I have a co-sponsor, will they be affected by my divorce if things go awry? I know this may not be the place to ask divorce related questions but it crosses with immigration. Thanks so much for the help so far!

Hello everyone. I'm looking for help and advice, please. I received my conditional green card from a bona fide marriage in March 2023. In Dec 2023, my US citizen spouse discovered I had an affair after the fact (I know yes) and we almost divorced. They went nuclear and threatened to call USCIS send them chatlogs of myself with the affair person etc. We solved the issues in the end with honest talking and some couples therapy, but these months have been very difficult for me. Can't blame anyone else but myself but yeah. I've been thinking about divorcing because there's too much bitterness between us. What I'm afraid of is basically: •If it becomes a lengthy divorce, what would happen if I can't produce the final divorce decree by the time USCIS sends the final RFE? Will I be put in removal proceedings? •What happens if my spouse sends chatlogs to USCIS out of anger? Will it damage my case greatly? We did enter this marriage out of real love, and the documentation we sent proved it. Leases, joint accounts, trips around America, photos with friends, tax returns. We do have a life together. Still do. •Do i751 cases with divorce waivers get automatic extension letters? What if I miss the 90 day window, can I still file? Will I be out of status? Thanks all for your time.