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Thanks everyone for your insight. I am now mentally prepared for a Stokes interview, we'll pass - we really do live together as husband and wife, there isn't much they could ask that we couldn't answer properly. He has addressed the wrong address on his driver's license already, it got changed a few months ago. The house in De Witt County where he used to live has been vacant for a while now, he was slowly moving his stuff out of it and back to our shared home and he made the last trip a few weeks ago. It's a >3-hour drive from our house, so he does it on days off in between his shifts at work. He has been working with the lady that owns the huge ranch that his property was cut out of, trying to get it rented. There just isn't a lot of demand in that area, so it's a slow thing. He hasn't lived there since the end of January of last year, though he paid the taxes on it last month. We spent weekends there together in the past, not recently though since it has been basically stripped out of all of his belongings and furniture and stuff. I know we got married really quick, and we've been slowly adapting our financial lives to include each other - I was 48 and he was 52 on our wedding day, we already had everything set up so now we've been making changes here and there to add each other into stuff. I haven't refinanced my house and really don't want to just to add him to the deed, it's not a sound financial move at this point when (1) no way on earth I'd get the same sort of interest rate (I originally bought during COVID, my rate is 2.875%), and (2) while he has good credit and our combined income and DTI would allow us to pass underwriting with no issues, I dread doing that whole process again. I would, if I thought we were on the brink of disaster with immigration - but even if we started tomorrow, it might not be complete in time for a second interview anyway. I've put him on the tax account with the county, so it will show he has interest in the property (this is a community property state, and adding him to the tax account on my house means he has to sign off on his interest if I ever sell it or we divorce). He is putting together $20,000 to put on the mortgage as a lump sump principal payment at the end of December, he put the funds in a short-term CD back in September which matures in December. He's already on all of the utilities, and I'm on his cell phone plan. Most of the household bills are being paid out of my checking account, they're all set on autopay, but his paychecks aren't deposited there just mine. We do have one checking account which is joint, where we put savings funds for household repairs, car repairs, etc. It isn't highly active, mostly deposits, but it has both of our names on it. We also share a credit card account that we use to buy gas, groceries, prescriptions, etc. and pay off each month. We mostly use cash on a day to day basis, I have a ton of old debt I'm paying off and I dislike incurring new debt - I'm paying off my 2019 car, he owns his outright (bought it with cash). Bills are for utilities, Netflix, internet. We handle our own car insurance and the homeowner's policy is in escrow with the mortgage company. I'm having mutual wills done by my boss (an attorney) but they haven't been finished/signed yet. I'm not sure what else there is to do now... just prepare for the interview, I suppose. We're due to be in Singapore at his brother's from December 28-January 19, so I hope they don't schedule it right in the middle of that.

He was on a student visa, which expired in April... so yes, an overstay. That's what I assumed, just not sure what else we can show or tell at this point... I mean, if they showed up here at the house and he wasn't on shift he be here, all of his stuff is here. He still owns the house he had been living in when we met, trying to rent it rather than selling it. So he's a property owner in a different county in the same state, but he doesn't live there anymore. They were obsessed with his drivers license at the last interview because he hadn't gotten the address changed on it yet, but that is done now. He did an address change with the post office too, gets his own junk mail here now.... those guys really keep up to date lol

My husband and I (I'm the USC) had an interview on August 8, 2024. It was kind of a blah experience, the lady interviewing us seemed to be a trainee (there was a second, older lady in the room the whole time sitting off to the side with a little notebook, she didn't say much just kind of watched what was going on). After handing over various documents and photos, etc, she gave us a letter that said "decision is pending" and told us it would be up to 120 days before we'd get our response. Since my husband got his work permit and his advance parole in July already anyway, we didn't think too much about it - we're married for love, living together except when he's on shift and staying at the firehouse, he hasn't been added to my mortgage because frankly I don't want to refinance to add him and give up my 2.875% interest rate, but he's the beneficiary to my 401K, I was briefly on his health insurance until he changed jobs and now works at a company that doesn't provide insurance less expensive than the insurance at my company, I'm on his credit card account with Wells Fargo, he's on my checking account at Capital One and we share a Sam's account and our cell phone account. I did add him to utility bills at the house, etc, and he has been spending money doing fixer-upper stuff around my older house. He has met all of my family, and we are booked to fly to Singapore at the end of December to spend 3 weeks over there with his brother. His parents are deceased. We are bona fide. We took the letter home from the interview and have been watching the case progress online do not much for a couple of months now... a few minor changes on the "progress" tab showing shorter and shorter decision times, and a while back they "cancelled" the interview we had already had - they cancelled our August 8 interview in September. Weird. Fast forward to today, and we both get alerts of "action taken" on our cases, and upon logging in it says "interview has been scheduled... letter will arrive in the mail." It looks like they're putting us into a second interview? Is this normal?

It looks like his visa had already expired when he applied for the I-485? He was out of status before he applied? In that case, he had no current status to adjust - he was already out of status. You can only adjust if you had lawful, current status when you applied. If your original entry visa then expires and you do not leave, you are overstaying which is generally forgiven if they approve your adjustment and issue the green card. But if you are already overstaying when you apply for adjustment, then there is literally nothing to adjust and you will get a letter like this one. That's what I'm seeing in this letter, anyway.

We had our interview August 8. Prior to that, the only stuff we had submitted were copies of birth certificates, my tax records from the IRS (I'm the USC, husband is the green card hopeful), scan of the marriage license signed by the judge, and copy of his passport. Well, and the passport photos and such, but no other evidence. Once we were married, he began updating his accounts to show our shared address, but since he still owns the property where he used to live (in another town, in another county about 200 miles from my place in Houston) he did not update his driver's license or his county tax records. At interview, we took a bunch of more recent stuff with us - as my spouse, he is now the beneficiary of my 401K, I am on his pension and his life insurance through his employer, I am on his health insurance (because, frankly, the plan he gets through being a government employee is much better and much cheaper than the one my company offers), I am on one of his credit card accounts, he is on one of my checking accounts - and I printed off about 40 photos of us, from the wedding at the courthouse (my family attended that) to just random shots of us around our house. The interviewer flipped through them, and kept them, but we did not submit them online. She was much more interested in why he hadn't updated the address on his driver's license, and in the validity of his prior divorce from 12 years ago. Side note - we've only been together since January, and got married in March. He was already here (we're working on adjustment of status, not a visa) but is now overstaying since his entry visa expired at the end of April. I know this is a little different than your situation, but it's still an I-130 process... Hopefully you can get some peace of mind and not overthink every step - if it's critical stuff, send it in. If it isn't, hold onto it for the interview. And since you're really married for a real, normal reason, your marriage is valid. Having the communication history and travel history to back up your connection to your husband is enough. They don't care who you travelled overseas with, if the intent was to spend time with your husband then that is enough.

My current husband divorced his previous wife (overseas) 12 years ago. The interviewer who did our interview on our I-130/I-465 AOS case was very, very interested in the divorce decree. She scrutinized it, made a copy of it, asked a bunch of questions, making sure he was not still married back home. I know there is a difference in that your father is here and his wives are not - but the state of being married to two women at the same time is his state of being, and it is not acceptable to USCIS or US law. So he has to terminate one or the other of his marriages, and keep the paperwork, or expect denial.

My husband and I are working on AOS for him. We had an interview on August 8, 2024, and the officer gave us the "you'll hear something in 120 days" piece of paper at the end of the interview - which was not a shock, as she was clearly training, another supervisor type was sitting with us the entire time. We haven't heard a peep until today - when both of us got an email saying "we've taken action on your application." I'm the US citizen with the I-130 petition, he's the I-465 who is currently overstaying on his student visa. We have lived together since January, got married in March, filed on March 29. Things are going pretty well - he got his EAD and AP on July 15, has gone back to work (he still hadn't gotten a new job when we went to interview, but he got one shortly after that and is back at work). The interview wasn't a slam dunk, but it went fine. We are not trying to hide or manipulate anything - we are married, for love, and we are in the planning phase of building our forever home together (we'll sell the one I already had when we met, and use the funds for the new one). He has met all of my family and friends, I have not yet met his family face-to-face but we're planning a delayed honeymoon to Asia in January 2025 to accomplish that (if USCIS ever coughs up my renewed passport, which is a whole other goat-roping on top of this green card stuff). So. Today we both got e-mail alerts "we've taken action".... and we both logged in, and now we both have "Interview cancelled" notices on our USCIS dashboards. Which is weird, since we definitely attended an interview on August 8. They updated his with "Next step: Case Decision" and the time thing now says "one week." So, either we'll be celebrating soon or we'll be trying to calm each other down, depending on what comes in the mail in the next couple of weeks. It clearly says on the "Interview cancelled" notice that if they need anything further, or if they make a decision, or if they schedule a new interview, we'll get it in the mail. My time thing went from 15 months to 3 months. So now his says one week, mine says 3 months. I'm trying to stay positive, this is progress, approval is arriving really soon - but my suspicious nature is creeping in. Since we were both mature adults when we married (I was 48, he was/is 52) we already had our banking and credit and debt set and have not really made a ton of effort to change things. For one, putting him on my mortgage would require a refi - and I refuse, since my current APR is 2.875% and there is no way in the world we'd get anywhere close to that now. He added me to one of his credit card accounts, and I added him to one of my checking accounts even though we don't really use these. I'm on the health insurance at his new job, and I am the beneficiary of his pension and life insurance through his employer, but all of that is quite recent and wasn't the case when we went to the interview. I don't have a pension or life insurance, so he is just on my 401K and that's it on my side. I don't really think any of that is a problem, but that cloudy dark corner of my mind keeps thinking about it. Fingers crossed that we're about to be finished!

We're in this boat with you. Interview on 8/8 went fine, as far as I can tell. There was a kind of weird vibe from one of the two officers in the room, but they were cordial and I was kind of nervous so there's that.... they took all of the photos I brought with us (we hadn't submitted any prior to that) and they wanted copies of my husband's school records - he arrived on a student visa originally, graduated his program as valedictorian with a 4.0, we met after he was done with school and working on an EAD connected with his degree. So we gave them that, and copies of other things like the letter acknowledging he is now the beneficiary of my 401K, and the credit card account we share, stuff like that. It wasn't easy to prove comingling finances because we live primarily on a cash basis, between the two of us we have about three credit cards, and we haven't decided yet what to do with his house in a town about 3 hours from my place where we are living together now (sell it? keep it and rent it out? just keep it as a weekend getaway? who knows, shouldn't matter anyway). They barely looked at me anyway, I got two questions: "how did you guys meet?" and "when and where did you get married?" They asked him several, read off all the "are you a terrorist?" questions and had him answer again, and asked him about his divorce and had he met my family? (yes.) I knew that it was a distinct possibility we wouldn't get a decision that day, and sure enough we got a letter saying "we will notify you once we make a decision." They put in a request for his school records (we didn't have all of them with us, just the transcript), but by the time we had lunch and got back home, they had cancelled the request for evidence (USCIS website status said "RFE cancelled"). No news yet on the decision, but we are still looking for an approval. We married for love and we are not trying to do anything shady, whatever they want to see they can have. It's only been 4 1/2 months since we filed, so we know there could be a lot more waiting to come - if they abide by the 120 day thing, we're looking at a celebration between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Just carrying on with normal life until then.

We have the arrest documents, the bail bond stuff, and the expungement order in the file folder we're taking with us, and a copy of the grand jury no-bill, and a letter from the district clerk saying that they do not have any file related to this case (they never bothered to make one, since the grand jury refused to indict). It's a non issue. I'm a litigation paralegal, paperwork does not scare me lol

Had almost exactly the same situation - except that my husband was on an expiring student visa and his employer had filed for but then dropped the pursuit of an employment visa for him to stay, in the process also terminating him over a legal issue caused by his ex-girlfriend. His student visa and the EAD he got with that expired at the end of April 2024. We got married on 3/22/24 and immediately filed his I-485 and my I-130. We got his EAD/AP at the beginning of July, and now the interview is scheduled for 8/8/24. He has been living in my house since before the wedding, and we did marry quite quickly after we got together, but not just for the purpose of getting his green card... so there isn't any fraud for them to uncover. The roughest part so far has actually been getting a certified copy of his 2010 divorce from Singapore. It has arrived, though, so we're good to go on the checklist of stuff they want us to bring to the interview. The legal issue is a non-issue now, because while he was arrested based on her now-known-to-be-false allegations, he was no-billed by the grand jury and the prosecutor has dropped the case and an expunction order is in process.

We married March 22, applied on March 29. Husband had a previous SSN from back in college, 25ish years ago, when he was over here with his first student visa. He had an EAD from this time around, allowing him to work in his field after graduating. That one expired in April, but used the same SSN he had years and years ago. This time around, he got his EAD approval notification on July 1 - and the card arrived in the mail on July 9. It's the same SSN being used again, but it didn't seem to help speed things up at all. We got the EAD in about 3 months. He says the one he just got about a year ago, on the latest student visa, took about 3 weeks to get once he filed for it... so he was a bit shocked at the 3-month timeline. But it seems to be fairly quick compared to other peoples' experience...

In American standard English, this "in addition" indicates that they have listed more than one reason they intend to deny the application. Number one was, they did not have your marriage certificate indicating that you married the correct person in the correct timeframe. [You have solved that, since you have sent them your marriage certificate, hopefully in certified form.] Number two, they point out that your i-485 application is based on marriage to a person who filed the i-130 petition for you. Assuming that it was your husband who filed the i-130, then this second issue goes away once the first issue is resolved. It seems they really just wanted to see the marriage certificate. Really there is no other legal/administrative way to prove a date of marriage other than a signed marriage certificate that has been filed with the county where you got married.

I also advise absolute honesty. My husband had an issue with the woman he was dating right before we met - when she realized she couldn't get him back, she went a little nuts and ended up charging him with assault. He didn't do anything to her - and he had several witnesses who were present to submit sworn statements to that effect. She had him arrested on Christmas Eve (he bonded out the next morning, and he's not a Christian anyway so it didn't matter to him what day it was), and eventually the grand jury no-billed him and the DA dropped the case. When we did our paperwork, he had not yet been no-billed and the case was still pending with the grand jury. He filled in information about his arrest, and it does not seem to have slowed things down. He got his EAD and Advance Parole card three weeks ago, and we just got notified that our interview has been scheduled, so his AOS is still chugging along. If they ask him about the overnight jail stay during interview, he'll just tell the truth - even though now, with an expunction order pending, it would not appear on a standard background check. Never know what USCIS can dig up out of the depths of the internet.

Thank you for the perspective! I added him to my investment account and a company-paid life insurance policy, not yet my 401K because I just became eligible in my current job (I have only been with this firm for 13 months and you are eligible at 12), but I'll be putting him on that when I register my account. He is currently looking for a new job in the city where we live, so he doesn't have any such accounts to mess with, yet. I feel like we're fine, no fraud exists here so no fraud for them to uncover. I appreciate the support, though!

Okay, backstory: I met my now husband in December 2023. He was already in the US, working under an EAD secondary to a student visa (I forget that acronym right now, the one where they approve you to work for a while in your field once you graduate)... He is a citizen of Singapore. We started dating, we're both middle-aged people (I'm now 49, he's 52), and when you know, you know. Facing the end of his student visa and a sudden loss of his work visa (the organization he had been working for had started that process, but dropped it when a new battalion chief was appointed who decided to kill all of that sort of effort. No comment on what we think of that guy), we decided to get married and file for a green card. So we did, just under the wire - we filed with a FedEx that arrived at the Texas processing center on 3/29/24. We got our notification of acceptance shortly after, about mid-May. He got his EAD and Advance Parole card (singular, it's a combination card) in the mail at the beginning of July. We got notified on Friday 7/19/24 that they had scheduled the interview, we both got emails about "action has been taken on your application." We're waiting to get the appointment letter in the mail. We're not afraid of the interview, we are "really" married - for love, not for any other reason. He has moved into my house, we still hold his place out in the country but at this point it's more of a long-weekend getaway than a residence. He put me on one of his credit card accounts, mostly because he has an insane obsession with points and wants me to buy gas from Sam's, and I put him on one of my checking accounts, but other than that we haven't really worried too much about comingling finances, we're cash people moreso than credit people and the only big debts are in my name - the mortgage on my house and my car. He owns his property and vehicle outright. Mutual wills is probably next, but we haven't done that quite yet. We don't have a ton of photos - there are snapshots of the wedding (at the county courthouse), the lunch with my family after (all of his family is overseas), a couple of other parties or family get-togethers. He has met most of my very large family, I have talked to his on video chat but never met them, his "sister" lives in San Francisco, his brother lives in Kuala Lumpur and his mom in Singapore, and we were waiting on his advance parole to be able to plan a trip over there together. So that's on the horizon. We have grand plans to work off the mortgage on my house in five or six years, and build "our" permanent house on land just outside the city so I can continue working, mostly because it would drive me nuts to retire so early. We spend most of our free time now tending to our "children" - the plants in my backyard garden and the ones on his rural property. They can act like toddlers sometimes, refuse to do what you want them to and continually demand food and water. The only tiny concern I have is that we did all of this in a very short time - and now the process is moving way faster than we expected it would, and we're already at the interview stage. I hope that an interviewer will be able to understand that we took the leap because "when you know, you know" and not for some nefarious reason. I mean, I married this man to make it possible for me to keep him in my life on a daily basis, because I knew we had long-term potential. And things are working out well. We annoy each other here and there, but we have never really fought about anything. We have similar taste in music, movies, television, books. We have similar senses of humor and similar ideas about how to run a household. We are both intolerant of drama and level headed. This is why I decided to marry him and stay married to him - not just so he can get a visa/green card. That is paperwork we need, not the end goal of our partnership. And yes, it was done quickly, but I don't think that should make a difference?