Hopeful Dreams

No that's really it they are fed up with my life choices it seems they just want to control me lol.. Thank you I'll make sure to state that yes you are right for both

I appreciate that, just I don't know it's tough

In what way did i appear 16? My girlfriend has said they can help

I'm looking at about a year still so It's not ideal at all I have been looking into things locally there really is nothing available to me that's why I'm under so much pressure and with no money at all It's even worse..

Yes I know to the above, but It's not that easy and I have been job hunting no luck... Advised to take my money and get out? How? Being abused and controlled my finances are taken as it is.. I have tried to sort this out hence why I'm posting this again hoping that it could work out. My parents don't approve because they want someone from our culture and religion etc.. Not the girl I want to be with Yes she is my girlfriend currently we are not married yet We're in our mid 20s

So my situation has gotten even worse, parents have taken my passport, money, other issues and have overall denied me being with my partner from the USA they are giving me 2 weeks to get out of the house.. I have filed for the K1 Visa with my partner but is there any way I can just go to the USA now and then get married to my partner and adjust status that way? I know this isn't supposed to be done, but with no money, a job paying barely anything and the situation I'm in at home would I not be able to talk to someone after trying to do this and explain the situation that lead to this? That I did try to go through the correct route but under pressure I had no other option? I am being forced into marriage too, they take everything I earn, withhold important things I have, abuse me physically... There's a lot to get into.. But can I not do this? I know It's not looked good upon, but I really have no choice

So I would ask her to give me all of that via email or something and then take it to the interview in my home country? Thank you, so is that the part where DS 160 is filled in after NOA 2?

What should I be doing in the meantime? 😄

How would we go about the job changes? We once tried calling their phone line and it just gave us a bot instead of a representative 😕

Hello all so If my USA partner were to job change before NOA 2 how would we go about that? They are not finding their current workplace to be okay anymore, It has been very stressful for her. I read up that it can cause issues? What should be done or how would we go about this? Another thing to add is she wants to go for a job that may be temporary or anything really so income will be very less / not reliable in terms of staying in that job so may have to find another job after?

That is great news but what is track my visa? is that an app? I hope mine also doesnt take too long, what are the steps now for you? thank you to everyone above

thank you to everyone I appreciate the advice and comments in general I hope things get better

Sorry what do the terms CSC , TSC, VSC mean? I'm assuming for the K1 visa its from October 2023 to April 2024 but is that only for NOA 2 or is that the time frame to actually have the visa too?

I guess I'll be waiting for a while then 😕

I have an ESTA, but I thought you can't reside there whilst we wait for the approval? How would I go about doing that? They are more than capable in supporting me 😕 Yes you are right but the issue is they don't want me to get a new job, they are trying to force me out of my current one to just stay at home and follow their demands.. So If I do try to get a new job they want me out of the house there and then its really complicated

Out of curiosity what are the processing times currently? After receiving NOA 1 how long would it be till NOA 2? And from NOA2 I assume is the next form DS-160? Then interview and medical exam? (Processed the files start of March)

I looked into that too but it's also very expensive and my current job isn't exactly full time it's on a zero hour basis so I wouldn't be able to keep up with the costs / expenses and I've been trying to find a new job for a while now, no luck. 😕 I understand the seperation issue but It's not really to do with that, It's more so being forced into leaving her by my parents and waiting such a long time for everything to process

Hello everyone, I made this account today to ask this question as I am very confused in what to do... So long story short I met my girlfriend via a game online its been about 2 years now and we have met in person and I even stayed over in the USA for around 90 days (we're both adults) so we then decided to go ahead with the marriage visa process as we both have decided that we would love to be with each other for the rest of our lives... However, my family situation is horrible. My family are against myself from being with this person as I also went against their wishes to visit her for 90 Days. I am being controlled at home where my finances are taken from me from my job and also controlled in every way possible, today I was announced by my Dad that he would be taking away my car and already found a buyer... I am really struggling at home now as I don't know what to do I have no friends that can support me and the rent around my area is just too high that my current job will not cover. We started the process at the beginning of March and I'm honestly not looking forward to waiting so long as I assume everything will complete by December 2025 I have no idea. I just want to be with my girlfriend wife to be as I already have proposed to her when she was here in person we really enjoy our time together and I am suffering at home with these parents that are controlling... I don't know what to do is there any way to speed up the process or for me to reside in the USA without working and letting the k1 visa process? I don't know I am just feeling really depressed these days as I just want to be with her and live my life with her, I can't even save any money due to my parents taking it from me and using it for their own benefit and If I ever try to talk back or say anything I'm told to get out of the house right now. Can anyone give advice? I'm sorry for the long message I tried to summarise it.