Ahna

Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I know i'm not in an ideal situation and I will do my best to improve it and prepare well Fingers crossed!!!

I have a REALLY good travel insurance, and i'm older and my dad has health problems, and I have a 14 year old cat. I hope they will understand that I don't want to give up my save life in the netherlands.

Thank you! I don't spend much, so I can save money every month. So my life in the ntherlands is really good, and travel to the us and stay there is not an option for me. It's a huge step to make, and I can't lie and life a good life if i'm in the us illegal.

Thank you for the response, I really appriciate that! That's a good advice to wait, I have no reason to apply now. Maybe by the end of the year. I'm not desperate, it's more that I want to visit him if I want to next year. next year is the biggest problem. For this year we are good and I don't want to be in the netherlands for my dad. Maybe a visit of a month this year would be nice, but that's not possible now. We don't that know yet. It is not an easy decision to make. And my dad is old and his mom too so. And we both don't mind to travel so.

I'm from the Netherlands and I'm in a relationship with an American men for a year and nine months and he is the love of my life! And I was in the US for the past three months and when I boarded in Minneapolis two officers told me that I had been in the US one day too long on my esta. I was on my way back home!! Like all the other times. We really checked and calculated the 90 days 30 times, and also with an online calculator. I booked a ticket for December 18 to March 17, and clearly that was 91 days. I have traveled to the US three times before and have always returned home. I just want to visit my boyfriend and travel with him in the US and he is the love of my life and we are serious and we really want to get married, but we want to take it slow. But the thought of losing him breaks both our hearts. We're both having a really hard time right now. If we don’t find a solution for this we can’t see each other much, he works a lot. We are lucky that he can come to the netherlands three times this year. That was already planned before this situation. He visits me twice in the Netherlands last year and he comes back in June and december. My life in the Netherlands is so good, I have NO intention to stay in the us. I'm 43 and my dad is 78 and he has health problems, he had two small heart attack, one this year and one last year. So that's the reason my boyfriend is coming to the Netherlands this year. But I really want to visit him one time this year. I get money from the state because I got sick a while ago, and i'm much better now, but i'm not there yet. That means that I have an extremely good and cheap health insurance and my rent is really cheap. I don't want to move to the state for sure. I can't stay longer dan three months a year because I have to be in the Netherlands and I always have to fill out an online form for that company where I get my money from when I leave and when I return and I can't be in another country too much because if I do I lose everything. Then they say: you don't live in the Netherlands anymore so you don't get your money anymore. I read all over the internet that if you are in a relationship with an American your chance of getting a B2 visa is zero and that the interviews are very short, 3 min or so and that they don't look at documents. And a rejection is made in a second and you can go for a second time but if nothing has changed they reject you again. I am afraid to apply for a B2. Do have a chance to get a B2 visa? Thank you very much in advance! Kind regards Anna