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  1. I take it this means you received your NOA2? NOA2 has a four month validity period, which can be extended should the wait time require it. When our case was projected to take longer than the four months, we were a bit rattled because USCIS sent us a new NOA2 with new validity dates.
  2. That was such a weird exit. I was watching the Kash Patel vote and when McConnell went aye I was like, what's the catch Mitch? Immediately followed with his retirement speech. Senator Turtlehead perhaps thinks the Patel vote will save his tarnished legacy. Cute.
  3. A completed timeline is the best way to thank us, and assist others on their visa journeys. Please contribute by sharing your timeline! https://www.visajourney.com/timeline/profile.php?id=484229
  4. For us the shipping time was just about a week. However that may be longer or shorter for you out there in Hawaii. Depends on where the card is produced. Congratulations!
  5. Agreed, you will be fine with copies. Have your fiance review his packet letter from the embassy with the instructions but ultimately if they demand originals over copies, there will be time to fix that. In regards to the amended declaration of intent for the interview, signatures do not have to be "wet": a copy will do.
  6. Again Trump being hyperbolic but I love the hot take:
  7. Man this is the hot take of the day, lol Trying to figure out what it has to do with the Munich speech: which yes, everyone should watch. The tepid claps of the globalists filled me with glee.
  8. OMG why am I even in this thread, please go easy on the directed cynicism because we actually had an awesome 1st Valentine's together. Jon and I have seen seven "v-days" since we met, this is the first one we've enjoyed in each other's presence. We went to the symphony and watched Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince with a live performance of the score. We met over being mutual Potterheads and thought it apt. Great night, involved some really good halibut cheeks and Chilean sea bass before hitting the theater.
  9. Stop getting my hopes up, damn you! 😆🤣😂 I'm trying to be PATIENT HERE
  10. I think this can be achieved in the Declarations of Intent. Providing a summary of the relationship will carry weight to match any evidence provided. 99% this. As most of us who've done K1 know, a common question during the interview is "How did you meet your fiance/e?" so supplemental evidence as to where/how you met is key, in addition to the meeting within two years. Heard this one a lot lately. Same sex marriages are very much recognized by the US, and this will not be changing. Be thorough, honest, and accurate in your petition. Your partner's sex has no bearing on the strength of it.
  11. Entirely subjective take here. CBPs can be jerks. But what you perceived as intimidation, may have been an interview with a bad CBP. We hear your frustration. You sound like you're looking to be mad about something, or have your side of the story approached with validating words. In this community you will receive honesty, even if it's cutting and perceptively brutal. I've learned it's key to accepting that the K1 visa process pulls no punches either. You two will get eaten alive at every turn if you continue to see yourselves as victims through this. Immigration is hard, and even sometimes risky. As mean and unaccommodating as officers can be, USCIS and Customs Protection do not owe someone entry to this country. Vetting is normal, and sometimes none too fair.
  12. The hardest part of the process is the patience required, and keeping yourself from comparing your case to others as they proceed, sometimes faster than you. The process can be very opaque at times and that stress can weigh on a relationship. It is a difficult journey, emotionally. Administratively, if you are honest and thorough it will be no problem. Review all directions on the USCIS website and be fastidious about completing paperwork with accuracy. If in doubt, come see us. This community will help you hammer out the logistics. The real weight comes from the waiting.
  13. You're missing the point. Reducing the instances of her interacting with customs, as well as showing a travel record that goes both ways for your AOS application later, is a win/win. By the way, I'm fluent in written sarcasm. I was only trying to help, no need to get defensive.
  14. At their present ages, they would not be entering high school. Your nine year old would be in elementary (primary) and depending on the district, your eleven year old will either have some time in primary before junior high, or will be entering middle school. Freshman year (first year of high school) is usually the school year when a child turns fifteen. That being said, you would do well to research the school districts in Michigan in which you are apt to reside. Michigan has a high immigrant population especially in the mitten (lower peninsula) and would likely be able to answer your questions about introducing your daughters to the education system. Considering English is one of their learned languages, I imagine they would do just fine, from my face-value opinion.
  15. It's Howzit, that's how it is LMAOOOOO jaykay
  16. My husband and I are now living in a perpetual state of irony. lol We've been looking into getting a small holding here in Iowa. If the Boers are granted asylum status, well, they will make amazing American farmers. As much as we'd love to see the farmlands claimed by these hardy folk over the CCP, there's a bit of anxiety over the potential impending competition over land, and the resulting hike in values. Additionally, as Jon is an English/Afrikaner mudblood Saffer, he'll be back to square one with the Boers getting a good laugh out of his funny accent/stilted attempts at Afrikaans. Man can't catch a break
  17. Very excited for you but please, please, please, addend official ceremony with unofficial. Not the other way around. In other words, don't count your chickens.
  18. Hear hear. Want to strengthen the validity of your relationship on paper, so you don't get into arguments with customs? Maybe time to pack your bags once or twice. Even the scales.
  19. You should try again, this is a completely legitimate way to get the code. Explain that you have to make travel arrangements for the biometrics. If anything, maybe the agent can assist with giving you the appointment date if not the code itself. Just keep spinning the wheel and try new agents. Someone will assist you.
  20. A radical thought to consider: when the global elite wish to spark revolution in the masses, it is counterintuitive to placate them. You want to destabilize them as much as possible. Here's a short list of plausible factors to the "marriage" issue in modern times, beyond what the article suggests (and TBone hitting the nail twice above me): -the readily available porn industry and permissive sexualization in modern culture -global information systems/media and the subsequent social skill decimation -without pinning the cause, the undeniable rise in autism numbers which also lends itself to social skill challenges -generational coddling and an unprecedented laissez-faire approach to parenting by those who raised current marriage-aged adults -rejection/ignorance to the benefits of individualism that come from growing up; when "adulting" is a four letter word, one escews the positives along with the negatives -a Western education system that molds efficient workers, and stymies personal growth focused on individualism and consequently, the purposeful approach to life that others would find attractive -Feminism(tm), which is actually sex-based egalitarianism that flatlines the natural individualism that exists between men and women, once again killing potential attraction -the Red Pillers(tm), scrapping trust in individuals and literally shooting themselves in the foot with the generalization of how the sexes behave in modern day -the slow drain of creativity from leisure, as well as its centralization on solo activities -activist movements that counteract focii on health, longevity, and fertility in the individual -the heavy weight of life to be measured in happiness, instead of purpose and meaning Plenty more, to be fair, but let's leave it there for now.
  21. Excuse me, I DO consider myself trad. and society(tm) It won’t let me edit and autocorrect got me lol
  22. Honestly I think this is the crux of the issue and the bullet hole which gets not even a band-aid (or plaster, if you will) in the article. It tries to examine the situation but we’re talking about MSN news here. For what it’s worth, the commentary on insurance remains historically accurate, even if it’s not relevant today. I too consider myself fairly traditional and I mourn the fact that marriage is no longer considered a revered societal institution. It’s a costly placeholder for ceremonial pomp and a bloviated industry that feasts on the pressures of tradition, even inventing new ones. in the end we have civil unions with sequins, executed by grown people who have the EQ of children still. Society(my) is killing marriage.
  23. I gotta say, it is absolutely refreshing to see the US government wake up to the atrocities in SA. Before Jon, I had no idea and I think this is the presumption of a lot of Americans: Apartheid over, mission accomplished, yay Nelson Mandela's rainbow nation. It's been 30 years of constant decline and the rest of the world turning a blind eye to it because the minority is the wrong skin color.
  24. It's definitely been in the forefront of our minds. Jon's dad is still there but his mom was Rhodesian and left for Australia years ago. Luckily they aren't farmers. Even though that's just the tip of the iceberg.
  25. Your wife's immigration status has not changed as she arrived on a non-immigrant visa and remains a non-immigrant. Personally, I would leave it blank. Neither of these are applicable. Although many law firms state that you have to file with a valid I-94, I scoured the USCIS website for filing instructions that highlight this. I did not find any (but am happy to see proof otherwise, if it exists). What I did find, was that marriage has to take place within 90 days: Of course it reduces complications if your I-94 is still valid, but I would try to treat the process as normal as possible. Any additional evidence you would like to share to explain the lapse in filing, you can reference on the final pages of the I-485 and provide additional statements and medical records, if it brings peace of mind. But if I were you then no, I would not seek to emphasize violation when USCIS doesn't highlight the particulars of your situation as one. Just be thorough, and fit supporting evidence into the flow of the form.
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