@OldUser "to me claiming FEIE highlights you're living abroad and working abroad, undermining your claim to have US domicile."
Yes, that's why I'm asking. Hoping that someone else went through this FEIE as well.
On one hand I wouldn't mind not sharing my hard earned $$ with Uncle Elon (or whoever else runs this country now), but on the other hand I don't want to jeopardize this marriage visa. (It takes several years to complete, so I don't want to save some money and then get a bunch of complications over it.)
But, on the other hand, it also proves that I'm living with my wife and it's a genuine marriage. This is what they want after all, right? And if they were moving a bit faster and didn't take years to process these cases, I wouldn't have to live abroad for this long.