Everything you send with UPS has a tracking number. Yes in your profile you can update the dates of when important events occurred and it useful for the website in aggregate for forecasting when uscis may act on your case.
Usps or ups?. If it was by the post office, you won't get a tracking number unless you send it certified mail. Also did you pay by personal checks or credit card?. Has your card been charged or checks cashed?
Finally please create your timelines
Was the intent to marry before you entered the US? What was the purpose of the trip? If the purpose was to use the tourist visa for the sole purpose to get married and then adjust status, then that's not allowed. You must go through consular processing
On what basis is the extension for? To my knowledge, overstay starts after the I94 expires. If it's more than 180 days past , then reentry bars kick in. Other members may have more knowledge
Pay separately for each form. Use personal checks for peace of mind and tracking. Credit card payments often get declined despite having available funds
I just know that us requires presentation of us passport when leaving. Are you going to Philippines 🇵🇭? It's my understanding that Philippines citizenship is canceled when another is obtained and they have to reapply