Happy to announce that our I-485 adjustment of status has been approved! 😀 The I-130 and the I-485 were approved one day apart, so when we got notifications about case update, we both assumed it was them closing our I-130 case. Little did we know the AOS was actually approved and we've been ignorant of it this whole time. 😅 It looks like we have a package coming for this Saturday from the USCIS-Corbin production facility. I can only imagine that that must be her green card.
We heard so many different things throughout this whole process, and so many nightmare stories. We were told that because we adjusted status in America off of a tourist visa that we would be put through the wringer, that we would be waiting 12-18 months, and that there would 100% be a USCIS interview required. None of that ended up being true. Aside from one RFE asking for additional marriage proof/pics, it was almost completely painless, if you don't count the initial work on all the forms. I'm sure my wife's home country being Japan probably helped, being that it's an ally nation and all. But I think it just goes to show that every case and case worker is different, and not everything you hear online is true (go figure). If you have honest intentions and do the process correctly, there's really nothing to worry about.
Good luck to everyone still on this journey!