I can't log in to use online services without going through one of two verification methods. Either ID.me or Login.gov (names might be slightly wrong, but they are the only 2 options to log in). I am able to log in and see a dashboard, but can't do anything there without verifying myself with a valid ID through one of those two sites. I have tired this with both to no avail.
But my issue isn't with gaining access to SSA online services. My issue is that I can't gain access to everything else needed here like bank account, credit, etc without my SSN being validated. And I can't validate it because it says there's no record to match my info, whether that's on SSA site, ID.me, Login.gov, banks, credit, etc. They all say invalid, but I camt validate because there's no record match. Do you see the vicious cycle I'm in lol?
Because SSA says nothing is wrong to them. The info they tell me on the phone is the same as if I was sat at their desk. It's the same computer screen. SSA have told me that they do not "verify" SSNs. When they are generated for a person, they are automatically valid. The verification is requested by third parties for basically every service here. Banks, credit, insurance, etc. This is not an issue with SSA as I have double checked my name, both maiden and married, address, phone number, etc.
The post office is just a verification option, as well as doing it online. But even to verify in person, you need to put in your info online, and when I do it says there's no match.