So I did not realize you can enter an IOE number on Ask Emma where it asks for a receipt number. When I enter the IOE number from the RFE that was sent in my wife's name, it says...
"Card Was Picked Up By The United States Postal Service
On October 17, 2023, the Post Office picked up mail containing your new card for Receipt Number IOEXXXXXXXXX. We mailed your card to the address you gave us. The tracking number assigned is XXX. You can use your tracking number at www.USPS.com in the Quick Tools Tracking section. If you did not receive the card, please go to www.uscis.gov/e-request to request that we resend the card to you. If you move, go to www.uscis.gov/addresschange to give us your new mailing address."
When I enter the IOE number for the RFE that was sent in my daughters name, it says...
"Case Is Being Actively Reviewed By USCIS
As of September 25, 2023, we are actively reviewing your Form I-485, Application to Register Permanent Residence or Adjust Status, Receipt Number IOEXXXXXXXXX. Our records show nothing is outstanding at this time. We will let you know if we need anything from you. If you move, go to www.uscis.gov/addresschange to give us your new mailing address."
I absolutely definitely received TWO RFE's.. one in the name of my wife, one in the name of my daughter, both asking for I-693's.