So I'm not a saint: I held an affair with another person while I was with my usc spouse. They found out and now are threatening with deportation: they also stole a bunch of my IDs including my SSN card, emptied our joint bank accounts (where I get my direct deposits from work) sent explicit photographs of me to my family members (then deleted; revenge porn) all while I was sleeping, to then abandon our home, and are refusing communication. I suspect they intend to annull the marriage on the basis of fraud: I contest this, we've known each other for close of 20 years and been in a relationship for 5, been married two years. We lived together had joint accounts the whole shebang.
What are my options? I'm already lawyer shopping. Thanks.