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TiffAndMike

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  • Gender
    Female
  • City
    Fort Worth
  • State
    Texas

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  • Immigration Status
    IR-1/CR-1 Visa
  • Place benefits filed at
    Texas Service Center
  • Local Office
    Dallas TX
  • Country
    Germany
  • Our Story
    I met Mike in the spring of 2022 in a group chat for a video game. Upon casual conversation, I learned he was from Germany which I was super interested in learning about because my late grandmother was from Germany and brought to the states when she married my grandfather while he was serving in Germany. Over the course of the following few months, we began talking more and more frequently. The conversations about Germany became fewer and started to become much deeper, flirtatious and emotional. We got to the point where we talked every waking second that we weren't at work or asleep. We just unexpectedly fell
    in love with each other.

    We both declared our feelings for each other in the beginning of August that year. To make sure that it actually love and not just infatuation or a "love from a far" type of thing, we decided for him to come visit me here in the States and for him to stay as long as he could on the VWP to make sure what we both felt was real.

    On December 6th 2022 Mike arrived at DFW airport. Within 5 minutes of us being in the car together, we started snuggling up together in the backseat while my friend driven. Being in his arms felt like home which is something I did not feel for a long time before that. My anxiety completely went away and I was happy. At that point, I knew what we were feeling was real.

    We spent almost 3 months together. The only time we were apart is when I had to go to work.

    I'm the type of person who craves my solitude and I honestly can not stand having house guest for more than one night, if that. After a week of having him here with me, I knew I never wanted him to leave.

    Before he came here, we made an agreement with each other that things will only go one of two ways. Either we would split up and remain close friends or we would move forward with our relationship and all that entails as neither of us wanted a forever long distance relationship.

    On February 14, 2023 he proposed to me with a beautiful ring that he had picked out for me and of course I said " YES" with no hesitation.

    He is honestly the most wonderful man I've ever met and is everything I have ever wanted in a partner. He's a foot taller than me and he's so sweet and gentle with kittens that I gave him the nickname "my gentle giant". The little things make him happy in life as they do me. He is super nice and friendly to everyone he encounters.

    Growing up, my grandmother would go to Las Vegas every year with her brother and she would tell me about all the cool themed casinos like the Luxor, Excalibur and Cezars Palace and how once I was 21, she would take me there. Unfortunately she had an accident when I was 14 that severely impacted her mobility afterwards so she was unable to keep her promise. Since her passing it was on the top of my bucket list to go there.

    After seeing a few movies where they were set in Las Vegas, most notably The Hangover, Las Vegas was on his bucket list as well.

    Because of these reasons, Mike and I decided that we wanted to visit Las Vegas together and to get married while we were there.

    Over the next 6 months, we planned every little detail of our Las Vegas wedding and on September 10th, 2023 we were married.

    Since our wedding, he and I have visited each other every 6 months. I went to Germany to visit him and met his entire family. They welcomed me with open arms and I love them all so much.

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  1. Your PD date is 2 days after mine. Our time is coming soon! My husband comes is coming to visit me next week and is staying for 6 weeks. We are hoping to get his approval while he is here visiting.
  2. We DEFINITELY deserve some questions answered. We played by the rules, paid the fees and are the ones helping pay their ridiculous salaries. There needs to be some accountability.
  3. My Senator's office seemed to be unaware of what is going on at USCIS and how long it is taking them. They thanked me for bringing the issue to their attention. I think that everyone needs to contact their Senator about the current processing times. Things won't change til people start speaking up and bringing it to the attention of their elected officials. And I would not hold my breath with the new acting director of USCIS. She was the assistant director under the last administration and she wasn't nominated for the position. She basically got the position by default. The Judiciary House Committee ripped the former director apart back in December over her management of USCIS. That's probably why she's out.
  4. April 7th would be exactly 16 months for me. I contacted my Senator's office last week expressing my dissatisfaction with how long USCIS currently takes so I've been wondering if maybe something came from that as my attorney's office said that tends to cause USCIS to act.
  5. Thank you for sharing your experience. I just checked my account again and a little over 24 hours later, it is now saying "4 weeks". I'm just grasping at any little sign of hope there is at this point.
  6. Forgive me for asking as I know how inaccurate USCIS estimates typically are, I'm just tying to be optimistic that the light at the end of the tunnel is near for my husband and I. We have been waiting close to 14 months now. Over the past couple of weeks, I have been checking USCIS to see what they are saying for how much longer we have left to wait on our case. For about 2 weeks straight, it said "2 months ". When I checked yesterday morning, it said "5 weeks" . For those of you who have had your I-130s recently approved, when the estimate drops into weeks, is it usually a good sign that your case is actually currently bring adjudicated? When the estimate went down to weeks, how long from that point did it take to recieve a decision?
  7. Unless someone got an approved expidited request, you aren't going to see any 2024 approvals. USCIS is still working on I-130s from 2023. I believe they are currently working on October 2023 cases at the moment. My priority date is December 7, 2023 and I'm still waiting.
  8. I am a USC who filed for my husband back in December 2023 and I'm still waiting. Unless USCIS'S priorities change in the near future, it is taking them 16 months to adjudicate I-130 petitions.
  9. Pay no attention to the estimated time on USCIS’s web site. All it will do is flood you with waves of negative emotions. I've been waiting now for nearly 14 months, since December 2023 and I haven't seen my husband since September 2024. I miss my husband beyond what words can describe. The next time I see him will be when I fly to Germany for his interview. When I start feeling down or angry over how long it is taking, I remind myself of how long it has already taken and how close we are to reaching the 16 month point. my thoughts for you would be to plan another trip to see each other in the next couple of months as you still have a ways to go with the USCIS stage. My husband and I made it a point not to go more than 6 months without seeing each other. We would be planning a trip for about a month from now but we are getting close to our approval date.
  10. My husband travels on a ESTA to visit me while our I-130 is pending. We just renewed his ESTA a few months ago as well. No issues. To be safe, make sure your plane ticket is round trip and bring supporting documents (lease, employer statement, ect) to prove your ongoing ties to your home country.
  11. Congratulations!!!!! Hopefully the rest of us Dec 2023 filers will see approvals soon.
  12. Has anyone with a November 2023 priority date been approved yet?
  13. Mine was filed through an attorney as well but USCIS still sent me the info to create my online account. To be honest with you, the online account doesn't show you the waiting time or anything useful so you really aren't missing anything. Mine has said "We are currently reviewing your case" but it has said that since January 7th, 2024. Nothing has changed and it's been over a year now.
  14. Yeah I got the email from VJ stating my estimated date is March 31
  15. Since the petition specifically asks if the beneficiary is currently in the USA, I'd wait til after he returns home to file it.
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