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TiffAndMike

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  • Gender
    Female
  • City
    Fort Worth
  • State
    Texas

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  • Immigration Status
    IR-1/CR-1 Visa
  • Place benefits filed at
    Texas Service Center
  • Local Office
    Dallas TX
  • Country
    Germany
  • Our Story
    I met Mike in the spring of 2022 in a group chat for a video game. Upon casual conversation, I learned he was from Germany which I was super interested in learning about because my late grandmother was from Germany and brought to the states when she married my grandfather while he was serving in Germany. Over the course of the following few months, we began talking more and more frequently. The conversations about Germany became fewer and started to become much deeper, flirtatious and emotional. We got to the point where we talked every waking second that we weren't at work or asleep. We just unexpectedly fell
    in love with each other.

    We both declared our feelings for each other in the beginning of August that year. To make sure that it actually love and not just infatuation or a "love from a far" type of thing, we decided for him to come visit me here in the States and for him to stay as long as he could on the VWP to make sure what we both felt was real.

    On December 6th 2022 Mike arrived at DFW airport. Within 5 minutes of us being in the car together, we started snuggling up together in the backseat while my friend driven. Being in his arms felt like home which is something I did not feel for a long time before that. My anxiety completely went away and I was happy. At that point, I knew what we were feeling was real.

    We spent almost 3 months together. The only time we were apart is when I had to go to work.

    I'm the type of person who craves my solitude and I honestly can not stand having house guest for more than one night, if that. After a week of having him here with me, I knew I never wanted him to leave.

    Before he came here, we made an agreement with each other that things will only go one of two ways. Either we would split up and remain close friends or we would move forward with our relationship and all that entails as neither of us wanted a forever long distance relationship.

    On February 14, 2023 he proposed to me with a beautiful ring that he had picked out for me and of course I said " YES" with no hesitation.

    He is honestly the most wonderful man I've ever met and is everything I have ever wanted in a partner. He's a foot taller than me and he's so sweet and gentle with kittens that I gave him the nickname "my gentle giant". The little things make him happy in life as they do me. He is super nice and friendly to everyone he encounters.

    Growing up, my grandmother would go to Las Vegas every year with her brother and she would tell me about all the cool themed casinos like the Luxor, Excalibur and Cezars Palace and how once I was 21, she would take me there. Unfortunately she had an accident when I was 14 that severely impacted her mobility afterwards so she was unable to keep her promise. Since her passing it was on the top of my bucket list to go there.

    After seeing a few movies where they were set in Las Vegas, most notably The Hangover, Las Vegas was on his bucket list as well.

    Because of these reasons, Mike and I decided that we wanted to visit Las Vegas together and to get married while we were there.

    Over the next 6 months, we planned every little detail of our Las Vegas wedding and on September 10th, 2023 we were married.

    Since our wedding, he and I have visited each other every 6 months. I went to Germany to visit him and met his entire family. They welcomed me with open arms and I love them all so much.

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  1. Congratulations!!!!! Hopefully the rest of us Dec 2023 filers will see approvals soon.
  2. Has anyone with a November 2023 priority date been approved yet?
  3. Mine was filed through an attorney as well but USCIS still sent me the info to create my online account. To be honest with you, the online account doesn't show you the waiting time or anything useful so you really aren't missing anything. Mine has said "We are currently reviewing your case" but it has said that since January 7th, 2024. Nothing has changed and it's been over a year now.
  4. Yeah I got the email from VJ stating my estimated date is March 31
  5. Since the petition specifically asks if the beneficiary is currently in the USA, I'd wait til after he returns home to file it.
  6. I always thought that you could only sponsor someone if you were a citizen or an LPR. This administration has allowed everyone both alive and deceased become a sponsor. And after watching this and finding out more facts of the CHNV scheme, there is a huge double standard at USCIS in how they adjudicate petitions. I-130s for immediate realitives are scrutinized and looked at with a fine tooth comb while those for CHNV are just approved despite the fact the entire program having countless amounts of fraud. They have been allowing 30k individuals a MONTH to enter this country under CHNV, which most of the beneficiaries would be inadmissible otherwise. Had they of just followed the immigration laws instead of trying to create new ones that were never approved by congress, Americans and LPR's wouldn't be having to wait 16 months for them to review our cases for our spouses and children. This makes my blood boil.
  7. https://www.nbcnews.com/news/latino/texas-mom-deported-newborn-twins-rcna184737?utm_source=NBC&utm_medium=iframely A more accurate account of events that can quickly be summarized in a few sentences: Mom entered the states illegally over the summer, was caught and put in the alternates to detention program. She had an emergency c-section on September 13. Her appointment was for October 9th. She was at home on doctor ordered bed rest the day of her appointment. Her other 2 children are Mexico nationals with the younger of the two belonging to the USC spouse. The deportation orders were only for her. Instead of her and her husband going through the legal process of obtaining an IR1 greencard, she thought it would be a great idea to try to sneak in the country and give birth here instead of in Mexico. She probably didn't think they would kick her out of the country if she gave birth on our soil to American babies. Attending an immigration hearing isn't a physically challenging task so there really isn't a good or reason for her to of missed it. This lady and her husband just sound entitled, thinking the laws don't apply to them. According to a different news source, the woman was already not complying with the terms of the alternates to detention program before missing her hearing and having an deportation order placed upon her. https://www.houstonpublicmedia.org/articles/news/2024/12/19/509316/ice-recently-deported-houston-area-woman-had-violated-conditions-to-program/ I particularly love how the words "unexpectedly arrested" are used. Like seriously, it's kinda of a given that if you break the law, you typically get arrested for it. I don't feel bad for her or her family one bit. Sorry, not sorry.
  8. The tile of this article is so misleading. ICE did not in fact deport or put the two newborn twins on the plane to Mexico, the woman decided to do that. If the USC father wanted to keep his family together so bad than why didn't he go with them? Hypothetically, if something like this were to happen with my husband, I'd go with him without even having to think about it.
  9. My husband lives in Plön Germany and according to him, there have also recently been terrorist attacks at Christmas markets in Frankfurt and Berlin. He said as a result, the Christmas markets are being shut down. Farmers are using their trucks to keep people out of the markets. Between the Russian aggression and the frequent terrorists attacks, Germany is becoming increasingly unsafe.
  10. They are all collecting their salaries til January 3rd, 2025. I don't know why they haven't let Greg Goldman go ahead and take over.
  11. I am in this woman's district! It explains why the phones in both her local office and her DC office goes straight to voice-mail when I have tried to contact her. What happened to "no taxation without representation"? Apparently I have not had any representation for almost 6 months now. Can I be exempt from federal tax for half of the year?
  12. Come on everyone, can we ease up on the OP and be a little supportive ? He's entitled to feel the way he feels. I think every single one of us has been in for something unxepected here and there during our own journey's. I don't think he is trying to act entitled, I think he is just in shock to how the legal immigration system actually works. To the OP: I get it and I sympathize with you, I really do. When my husband and I first realized that we wanted to be each other's "forevers" I did extensive research over the course of 6 months on Legal immigration, what our options were and spoke with numerous attorneys before we decided which path we wanted to pursue in order for us to be in the states permanently together. At the time, USCIS was processing I-129s in the same amount of time as I-130s. We decided that we wanted to go with the IR-1 visa as it was just as fast, less expensive and less red tape. 6 months later, we were married and starting our immigration process. At the time when we filed, USCIS was taking 11 months to process the I-130. Our petition was given a priority date of 12/07/2023..... 11 months meant that it would either be approved or denied by November 2024. Fast forward 1 year later.... Yesterday marked the 1 year mark of USCIS having our petition and yet here we are sitting here still waiting for their decision. What was supposed to be 11 months til a decision has grown into 16 months. Myself and everyone else currently going through the process have seen our expected processing times grow month after month in what seems like a never ending cycle. The part of the whole process that shocked and royally pissed me off is finding out that USCIS can just continuously increase your processing time whenever they see fit. Going into this, I thought that when they said "11 months" it meant "11 months" and that future petitions may take longer than that, not ones that were currently pending. I also did not know that every time Biden announced a new "TPS" or "parole in place/advanced parole" scheme, that it would affect the time it took petitions like mine to be processed. It is heartbreaking, frustrating, agonizing and infuriating. Every single one of us has had to make sacrifices and put our lives on hold while we go through what seems like a neverending process. Is it fair to us that we did everything the way we are supposed to it only to watch those that broke the law get priority? Absolutely not. I particularly am not enjoying spending the holidays once again without my husband but unfortunately, it is what it is and it's out of my control. I've had to learn how to accept it for what it is and not dwell on the fact that my government is failing me. If you dwell on it, it will do nothing but consume you and make you beyond bitter. Believe me, I know. The range of emotions I have felt going through the LEGAL immigrantion system has truly been a roller-coaster ride. I am a realistic person. I knew what I was getting into but it didn't prepare me for how I would feel. I really don't think anyone could really be prepared for the emotional part of the journey. my thoughts to you is to just go through the process of getting your wife to the states. While you are doing this, don't focus on how long it takes. Instead put all your energy and time into creating the best life you can for your family once they here in the states. Get your future home ready for them. Paint the bedroom your wife's favorite color and decorate it to her taste. Go shopping for things that you know your daughter would love to have in her room, etc. My husband is going to be leaving pretty much everything he owns behind when he moves to the states so I am constantly looking for things I know he likes to make the apartment I live in feel like home to him. I also shop for clothes for him. We use Skype and Whatsapp to go shopping together. You are lucky like I am that your spouse is in a visa waiver country so the two of you can visit each other during the process without a lot of red tape. She will have to apply for an ESTA to visit you but it's pretty affordable (about $20 every 2 years) and easy to obtain even with a pending I-130. She can stay for up to 3 months at a time. Once you get your recipt notice from USCIS, go ahead and file for a K3. It will be denied but could help your I-130 speed up by a couple of months. Even if it don't, it's free to file and there is nothing to lose other than the cost of postage. If you ever need advice or just someone to vent to, feel free to pm me. Sometimes it helps just to talk to someone who understands what you are going through.
  13. My advice is to go ahead and get your vaccines right away. My husband had to get all of his and his Hep B vaccine was in 3 dosages that had to be spread out over a couple of months. He's in Germany. I believe he had to get the MMR as well. His vaccine records were all lost so had to take all of them again. We haven't even had the I-130 approved yet but we wanted to be ahead of everything so we'd be ready when our time comes. He just has to take a covid booster and possibly the flu vaccine. The covid booster is if you haven't had the vaccine in over a year. I am hoping that the requirement of this one just goes away as it isn't even required for Americans. Kinda a double standard if you ask me.
  14. He will definitely try to. He's challenging the 14th amendment due to the wording of it. It will be up to the courts at that point. Another option which he has already talked about doing is ending "chain migration". He has specifically mentioned ending IR-1s for parents of USC's and LPR's. Making IR-1's only available to spouses and minor children of USC's and LPR's would would drastically cut down on "anchor babies" as it would eliminate the opportunity for them to ever sponser their illegal parents. For the life of me, I can not figure out why we allow women to come into this country when you can obviously tell that they are going to give birth at any moment.
  15. The paralegal at my attorneys office told me that typically the service center closest to your residence typically handles your petition 😳
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