Yes have quit my job now, my soon to be wife and her family are happy and able to accomodate and finance my cost of living (very low).
The emergency back home would be terrible however i dont believe in stopping myself moving forward in my life because of fear of that, I have some savings and still assets my family are willing to sell for me, car etc. The mortgage is still in my name however i do not pay it anymore, long story short it was a way for my ex to pay me out of the house whilst still keeping the house without reapplying for another mortgage by herself (impossible in the UK currently).
The reality of the possible downsides of doing this AOS are much lesser than returning home to my previous life. Thanks for the reply