PASTJOURNEY18
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Absolutely. Of course! I'm hoping so as well.
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Yeah, the day I came home and she had left, she left a note stating that if I don't sign the divorce papers or give her a hard time, she will share recordings of me to my friends and family.
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I too, from the moment she left me with a threatening letter, believed it would be VAWA. Then the law firm that called and left a voicemail said U-Visa. Can't say I ever watched those shows. Now I lived it 😂
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This is a good point, unfortunately feelings and emotions sometimes get the best of you. I am certain she is a narcissist though.
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I hope I never came across as blaming anyone else. Yes, I am trying to heal. Easier said than done.
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Why not! Well worth it. It destroys a persons life.
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The love bombing from the start to completely abandoning - it's evil.
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Eastern European? It was a call from the exact attorney office she was speaking to 2 months prior. Same number. I am trying to focus on me, the trauma of the abandonment just destroys me inside. Not an exact quote but, we (law firm) received USCIS receipt for u-visa application. Now all we do is wait. I will email you the paperwork.
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I own the telephone number, they called and left a voicemail stating it...
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That has been the hardest part honestly. The feeling of being abandoned, then blamed for everything, questioning everything is surreal.
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VM from immigration attorney. If you find it, please let me know! That would be unbelievable if this is a thing right now.
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By any chance on another forum? I did write about it elsewhere over 2months ago on another site.
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This has confused me also - it does lead more towards VAWA, but what I have (concrete evidence) is U-visa. Unless she was part of a crime that I NEVER knew of. Regarding divorce? Unfortunately in our state we have to be separated and not in the same dwelling for 1 year. I meant me. Habit of saying we for 3 years now. 1. We have an good divorce attorney, but he's not familiar with immigration aspect of things. I reached out to a VAWA/U-Visa focused attorney and they advised for me to send tip forms - nothing else can be done. 2. After I realized how she was manipulating me gas lighting me after the abandonment, all contact is done. 3. Have it all. I paid for her entire lifestyle here, all the bills, etc. Have texts admitting she was emotionally cheating on me, how I should still "apply for her waiver if I loved her" (then she said, but don't anymore BUT if you love me you would have even if we get divorced) - my friends are ready to submit anything from their side. They saw how dirty she did me. 4. Hardest part, but I'm trying. Regarding the U-VISA, I would have been notified obviously by now if I did anything wrong right? It's been months since she left...
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Originally she came in on a J-1, but when we got married and her overstaying, she was on an ESTA. From what I understand, she may not be able to get an ESTA again if she leaves. Is the correct? We have been in contact with one, he just said we need to wait the 1 year. Absolutely! Completely different states now.
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Never received an order to deport, but she was subject to the 10 year bar. She had overstayed her ESTA for over 2 years. 1 year separation first unfortunately Yes, but we can't do anything for a year. Thank you and sorry!