Hi,
New to this dreaded journey. NOA1 for I-129F on 10/4/21. Already had delays from an RFE for further information to prove a bona fide intent to marry before NOA2. We waited over a month for interview dates to pop up, and were able to book an interview one week prior to our interview date. Because of this, our medical did not arrive in time (they sent it 1 day after the interview....) Because of this, we got a 221g for medical and were told to fill out an email questionnaire to "avoid delays". Our email was labeled DS5535. Our case has been updated the day of the interview, still stating "ready", and the day after the interview when they received our medical results it was updated and still says "ready". They kept my fiance's passport at the end of his interview. So the waiting begins.
Now I am trying to figure out what to do next. I am in the process of finding a lawyer to seek legal input, but would appreciate any advice from others who have recently (late 2022/2023) been in the same boat. I hate being sent into uncertainty after waiting so long. We did not know it was possible to get stuck in an endless cycle at the last stage before getting married. Our wedding is supposed to be planned for the end of October 2023. I am devastated to see the degree of delays, knowing it will impact our wedding date after we were so excited to finalize everything when we got our interview date. We let everyone know with the delays it would be a stretch, but we were really hopeful to make this happen so my fiance's grandmother (90 years old) could make it to the wedding.
After reading through the recent entries here, it sounds like it is rarely processed within 60 days, but that is the supposed time frame before anyone is willing to take legal action. Has anyone ever dropped their K1, got married, and started over filing for a CR1/I130? I am even contemplating dropping the whole visa and moving to Canada instead.. I am a medical professional so I could use that to my advantage, but that was one of the main reasons we wanted to settle in the US (did not want to take another licensure exam, language barrier would prevent me from using my degree in Quebec and we both live along the Canadian border in QC/NY).
With all of that said, I would like to give everyone here a virtual hug. What a process to be able to live with our loved ones.