I totally agree he caused harm to me and a loss of my life and time. The lawyer from what I can remember never said anything about having to meet her prior to filing. He only now said, there are circumstances that USCIS will waive. This was after I brought all this information I learned from here to his attention. I will be talking with this lawyer tomorrow and I will be asking for all the money back. I will explain to him how he has stressed me to the point of depression. All this time I thought we were at the end of the processing to only find out that its more likely than not that the K1 was denied due to the fact we did not meet prior to filing and my lawyer never said anything about this requirement. I have lost so much sleep over all of this this past week. Last night was like a record skipping and replaying a lyric over and over. I kept playing over in my head, I need to fly to Thailand and marry her, I need to fly to Thailand and marry her, over and over. And the cost of it was also repeating in my head throughout the night. When I woke up, my face literally hurt.
It looks like I need to do a CR-1. It really looks like the best option at the moment. I have also reached out to a senator, not that this will help. But I am going to bring to his attention this lawyer and what had happened. I don't expect any fantastic results, but I am going to try.
16.5 plus months, lost, thinking we were close to finally living our lives together.
Hopefully tomorrow I get the paperwork USCIS sent me giving me the reason for the case being denied.
So much stress.
I will continue to keep you all posted. I would like to thank you all for your responses. It really means a lot to me that so many people are willing to help guide me through all this.