Hello, my girl friend who is Colombian and has a very successful business in another country is visiting me at my parents home for 3rd time this year.
she was nervous to say she was visiting a boyfriend. So, she showed a letter my mom messaged to her inviting her to stay at our family home. With all of our names. She is my girlfriend however.
we discuss a future together and her marrying me here. And that would require her to marry me on one of her visits. SHE HAS NO INTENTION OF OVERSTAYING. And will not! We want to do it legally. But I am nervous they will perceive this as deceptive because she never mentioned me as a boyfriend and my mom invited her.
What should we do next time she visits. Our relationship is at a higher level now past friends. We discuss marriage. We love each other.