flora87

I'm hesitant to give too many details on the off chance he would ever see this post. That's also why I cannot do a timeline at this point. Basically he is the opposite of everything I put in my original post, i.e. unhappy, ungrateful, condescending. I really do appreciate you sharing about your husband, and I'm genuinely so happy for you. It really makes me feel better because like I said, I know there are good and happy Moroccan husbands out there. I think some people just fail to thrive here. If everything isn't exactly to their liking, they just give up. There are so many opportunities here, but you have to step out and do something or you will never make it. And you have to be willing to contribute, and you have to not spend all your time on the phone with Moroccans. Also, If you are waiting for the money truck to pull up and dump a million dollars in your front yard, you will be disappointed. I suppose some husbands come over here and get to lounge around by a pool and spend their wife's money, but I would guess that most don't, and most have to make their way here. Maybe that was miscommunicated by me, but I feel like my reality was pretty evident before he arrived, and yet, somehow, for some reason, he expected something completely different apparently. Maybe a trip back home would help, but that too would have to be provided by me, and as it is I am struggling to hold the fort down financially, but I am really hoping I can provide that for him. I do have one question. If we do not do Removal of Conditions, basically he will have to go home, is that correct? And he will not have an opportunity to return to the US? I cannot imagine giving up the opportunity to live here when so many would give everything to do so.

I just want to know. Are there any good and happy Moroccan husbands out there? To you American wives, are your Moroccan husbands working? Are they happy? Are they grateful to be in the United States? Do they take advantage of the opportunities around them? Do they think well of Americans instead of constantly cutting them up and calling them stupid behind their backs. Do they treat you well and respect you? Do they appreciate it when you to help them with something instead of calling you stupid? Do they appreciate the things they have even if they aren't the top of the line? If so I will tell you you are very lucky. If you are living with a hardworking, kind, polite, appreciative husband, who is happy to live in the United States, and taking advantage of all that we have here,will you please post about it? I would like for someone to restore my faith in Moroccan men and convince me that there are some good Moroccan husbands out there. I know that there are. I would just like to hear about it, please, because I cannot even believe what I am living through right now. Please post and brag on your man. I'm sure it sounds weird, but it will really encourage me. Thanks, everyone.

Thank you! And how does that work with the i-864. Is there a standard amount I would need to provide him, or just be sure he is not homeless LOL.

Thanks so much. I had plenty of warning. Even on the U.S. consulate in Morocco's website. It's more of a case of I started something and I wanted to finish it, i.e. get him here. I hold no grudge against Moroccans or MENA men. We just have different ideas and expectations. Thanks for your help and sympathy!

I got married to a Moroccan in Morocco. How can I get divorced if we are both now living in the US? Do we have to go back to Morocco?